AD1980 Posted December 10, 2012 Posted December 10, 2012 If you're 32 and a virgin you know damn well youre ugly trust me..but until then dont worry about it you're fine 1
Author Gentleman810 Posted December 10, 2012 Author Posted December 10, 2012 Talk to some hairdressers. Check out shops when they are not busy attending clients and ask them what sort of style someone with the shape of your face and at your age usually go for. Dude what are you talking about? You're defintely above average. And this is coming from a guy You're lucky too because it looks like you've got a nice physique. I'm really lean/skinny and it's hard to put weight on, it take's a lot of work for me to get to a body type like yours, and you just naturally got it! No worries man. I vote - NOT ugly. Work on your confidence. That will go a looong way. I found that out first hand,wasnt good for the ego but sometimes i guess a dose of relaity is ok lol Honey, you have beautiful eyes, full lips and a youthful face. there is nothing ugly about you. now about the eyebrows, you can go to a professional, many men do this, and have them trim everymonth a bit of the top. the extra little hairs, they will brush it evenly for you also. either way with the eyebrows fixed or not you are still handsome. I appreciate everybody helping me and giving their opionion, truly. After yesterday, I started to talk with my mother and she kinda was surprised/shocked about how insecure I was. She'd say that it wasn't needed at all for someone like me (very sweet mom I have ). I just hope that everyone who finds themselves in the situation I am in, will get over it eventually and find peace. And I did woke up with a smile today tbh. From now on I hope I can live with more harmony in myself and go on and not to worry too much about things that is keeping me from enjoying life. 3
Imported Posted December 10, 2012 Posted December 10, 2012 OP, you should do fine with the ladies, especially in a college setting. It'd help a lot if you stopped dressing like a kid. Hoodies are fine, but oversized drooping sports team logo or any kinda logo is just kid stuff. I have a feeling once you get with one girl, several more will make themselves available with little to no effort on your part. For my hair, I like simple as well. At the longest, my hair is still kept short and clean looking. I also like to occasionally buzz cut it myself down to just peach fuzz. Get this and use it, even with how short your hair is now. It thickens it, changes it somehow, I dunno. Try it. I use it even when I am buzzed down to 1/8th of an inch all around. Amazon.com: American Crew Fiber Pliable Molding Cream Hair Styling Creams (85g/3 Oz): Beauty or this, which you can get at walmart for @ $5 Amazon.com: FX Wild Harvest Hair Molding Wax, Beeswax, Flexible Hold, 2 oz.: Beauty Honestly, if your face is attractive, having little hair just really brings it out more. I go from long to short and I do great with which ever hair style, but I do notice on change up, I do even better with women that got use to seeing my hair in the other style. Whether they tell me they like my hair longer or shorter doesn't matter.
IT Geek Posted December 10, 2012 Posted December 10, 2012 If you're 32 and a virgin you know damn well youre ugly trust me..but until then dont worry about it you're fine Or if you're in your 40s and have been told outright by women that you're unattractive. Yes, that has happened to me, more than once.
CptObvious Posted December 10, 2012 Posted December 10, 2012 You need to get wide and you need to get rid of that pencil neck. Trust me bro, you start bodybuilding and everything on your face will sort itself out. **** the eyebrows, you ain't got time for silly **** like that. Your potential is in the gym. 1
Author Gentleman810 Posted December 13, 2012 Author Posted December 13, 2012 Hi, I thought it'd be worth to keep you people updated. One of my main concerns was my insecureness, this also affected the people around me, including the girl I liked (and still like). Well, in the beginning there was nothing wrong, we were like normal and laughing all the time. But when I started to like her, she didn't knew how to handle the situation since she is a very insecure girl. Because of this, I was acting strange too and that's how distance was being created. This kept me going on by thinking I wasn't handsome enough etc. After people started to help me out here, I was going with so much more of a confidence feeling to class and this again, also affected her. I just started to conversate and she has become more relaxed, I just knew it had to do with me. I just have to build it up again. I feel so stupid for being so insecure, but again that's how some people are I guess. In the end, it's better late then not at all. Most importantly, I should try to find inner peace and it'd be so much easier for me to do things really. Thank you all for your help everyone!
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