johnsonsean Posted December 9, 2012 Posted December 9, 2012 I as invited to a party with some friends, but my girlfriend didn't get invited though. The person is hosting the party knows my girlfriend and talk with her sometimes and the others at the party are some of her good friends also. I asked the person hosting if my girlfriend could come and they said yes. So then I asked my girlfriend to come but her response was "since i wasn't invited by the host i don't want to go" The party is the 22nd this month and every month on the 22nd is something special to us. Should I go to the party or stay home. The person hosting the party always invited me to stuff, btw the person hosting is a female
ask_first Posted December 9, 2012 Posted December 9, 2012 try to persuade your girlfriend to come. she got an indirect invite at the end. unless you have a feeling that the host doesnt like her much and that's why she didnt invite her at the first place. if your girlfriend doesnt want to go then you will have to discuss it with her whether she would like you to go. give her an option to have a say. and then do as you like! (just joking) it also depends if you value more your friend or your girlfriend. if they are equally valued, then it is a hard call. or another idea: just make your friend to call your girlfriend and invite her officially. then she cannot refuse! it depends though how close you are to your friend to ask such a thing. many more ideas but tired of typing! good luck!
Author johnsonsean Posted December 9, 2012 Author Posted December 9, 2012 try to persuade your girlfriend to come. she got an indirect invite at the end. unless you have a feeling that the host doesnt like her much and that's why she didnt invite her at the first place. if your girlfriend doesnt want to go then you will have to discuss it with her whether she would like you to go. give her an option to have a say. and then do as you like! (just joking) it also depends if you value more your friend or your girlfriend. if they are equally valued, then it is a hard call. or another idea: just make your friend to call your girlfriend and invite her officially. then she cannot refuse! it depends though how close you are to your friend to ask such a thing. many more ideas but tired of typing! good luck! Thank you for the response I going to try and get the person hosting to give her a invite. The person hosting and her are in the same friend group but they don't really talk to each other. I value her more then my friends because she is the one I trust my life with.
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