NeverPlayaPlayer Posted December 9, 2012 Posted December 9, 2012 For the last few weeks i have been visiting the break up part of this site and coping with the end of my last relationship.... Well im on the dating part now because as of last week an unreal angel has entered my life. She only turned last week but i am in shock.... I am a soon to be 47 year old and she is a 28 year old spanish model.....I have no idea where it will lead, we are both taking things very slowly for respective reasons....but wow... So for anyone dealing with loss of love, believe and live because if you dont you may never feel the amazement, no matter what, that I am feeling... Someone, please pinch me....
edgygirl Posted December 9, 2012 Posted December 9, 2012 I'll pinch you and say it's disgusting (for me) for a man your age to go after someone 20 years younger. What, you can't find a woman your age attractive? Ugh. No wonder women my age can't find a real relationship. F- that.
Author NeverPlayaPlayer Posted December 9, 2012 Author Posted December 9, 2012 I'll pinch you and say it's disgusting (for me) for a man your age to go after someone 20 years younger. What, you can't find a woman your age attractive? Ugh. No wonder women my age can't find a real relationship. F- that. As it happens she pursued me and has made all the moves....how dare she....
Drseussgrrl Posted December 9, 2012 Posted December 9, 2012 So are you over your ex? Or is this a rebound.
Author NeverPlayaPlayer Posted December 9, 2012 Author Posted December 9, 2012 So are you over your ex? Or is this a rebound. No, no no, well and truly over and out of the previous relationship....this girl now has done more to demonstrate her genuine affection in 4 days than my last girlfriend managed in 7 months... whatever may or may not happen, with this girl now, it has reignited my faith in the existence of genuinely lovely people... whilst she is a stunning looking woman, she is even more beautiful inside...
terlislee Posted December 9, 2012 Posted December 9, 2012 No pinching, you deserve someone good after the last girl Good luck! 1
edgygirl Posted December 9, 2012 Posted December 9, 2012 Ugh. I see. So would i.e. Demi More be a bad choice? I think guys that age that date women in the same age range are more evolved and less chauvinistic. A girl 28 yo is not there yet maturity-wise. When the bewitching phase passes, he might see that. The only 47 year old man that dates women his own age is either poor or spectacularly unattractive.
edgygirl Posted December 9, 2012 Posted December 9, 2012 I mean, seriously, what infuriates me with this kind of thing is I think most men don't give a damn about having an intellectual connection with women. The OP who is a few years older than me, knows for sure that a 28 yo might be beautiful and so, but he knows he won't be able to have a real connection and talk as equals with her as he would with someone his age. Maybe you guys responding are young too and don't know it yet (as I didn't when I was younger). Are men really only after looks? That's my point. Ughhh. Ugh. I see. So would i.e. Demi More be a bad choice? I think guys that age that date women in the same age range are more evolved and less chauvinistic. A girl 28 yo is not there yet maturity-wise. When the bewitching phase passes, he might see that.
Author NeverPlayaPlayer Posted December 9, 2012 Author Posted December 9, 2012 Ugh. I see. So would i.e. Demi More be a bad choice? I think guys that age that date women in the same age range are more evolved and less chauvinistic. A girl 28 yo is not there yet maturity-wise. When the bewitching phase passes, he might see that. To be honest i am just enjoying the moment....its important to keep my focus and truly understand the benefits of our paths crossing.... I would love for a meaningful and long lasting relationship to develop but who knows and i am experienced to know how easy it is for things to die... my last girlfriend was 33, the one before was the same age too and when i was 37 i had 20 year old girlfriend....trust me, i dont pursue them, quite the opposite...
Author NeverPlayaPlayer Posted December 9, 2012 Author Posted December 9, 2012 I mean, seriously, what infuriates me with this kind of thing is I think most men don't give a damn about having an intellectual connection with women. The OP who is a few years older than me, knows for sure that a 28 yo might be beautiful and so, but he knows he won't be able to have a real connection and talk as equals with her as he would with someone his age. Maybe you guys responding are young too and don't know it yet (as I didn't when I was younger). Are men really only after looks? That's my point. Ughhh. and yes I agree about having the intellectual connection....so far its all very nice and thats all i can say....
edgygirl Posted December 9, 2012 Posted December 9, 2012 Ok I can totally understand that. Don't get me wrong: I am happy for you that you got your mind off a bad breakup, been there and know how terrible it is. Enjoy your time with her yes... But I hope you know that after a while, only beauty and no intellectual connection at our age is... empty! You have to think with yourself why these relationships did not work... if it was because there was no intellectual connection or so or you were in different life phases. After all, I bet what you really want is a fulfilling relationship. If you can get that (for real) with someone younger, good for you. I've tried it and it's not very realistic... To be honest i am just enjoying the moment....its important to keep my focus and truly understand the benefits of our paths crossing.... I would love for a meaningful and long lasting relationship to develop but who knows and i am experienced to know how easy it is for things to die... my last girlfriend was 33, the one before was the same age too and when i was 37 i had 20 year old girlfriend....trust me, i dont pursue them, quite the opposite...
edgygirl Posted December 9, 2012 Posted December 9, 2012 See... that's my point. I'm glad you can see that. And you should think about that if you want to find real happiness, imho. and yes I agree about having the intellectual connection....so far its all very nice and thats all i can say....
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