oceanlove Posted December 9, 2012 Posted December 9, 2012 Ok, this is long but please help me out, we've bn involved the past 8 months but 2 he was gone and the past 2 months we finally got real good again. He says he cares about me and basically treats me like a gf, hugging kissing in public, even in front his friends. Defends me when I've bn disrespected by this one guy, deals with me when I'm sad or pmsing. We have gotten to where we can really communicate and its helped a lot. He says he won't date me because he isn't ready, but he wants me around cause he likes my company. His ex ****** him over sept 2011. He says he needs to learn to take care of himself before bringing somebody else in his life I'm 21 he is 24. One night he was drunk after we got in a dumb fight and hadn't spoke in days and he showed up at my house saying he wanted me to be his and I said thatd make me your gf he said I don't want you to be my gf you're more wife material, he says he wants me to have his kids and that's another thing if we date he said hed try and get me pregnant. I love him and he said he doesn't know if he's IN love cause he's confused and afraid he said he knows he does love and care about me and he loves the way I make him feel and the way he makes me feel. Ps he's told me before that I scare him and he's never bn scared like this when it comes to a relationship with a girl. What's his deal?? I can feel that he really loves me but it hurt when he said he doesn't know if he's in love.. And last night he said he loved me and I responded with "but you're not in love" and he said he didn't mean it. I'm confused. Is he just scared to admit it to me and himself? Sometimes it seems that way..
Toddbt12y1 Posted December 9, 2012 Posted December 9, 2012 "In love" is talking about the feeling, could be romantic. "Love" is where you have a deep care for a person regardless of romantic feelings. Or in dry times when a relationship gets dull, you still love that person Only immature people who don't know love use that lame excuse..not in love. Sounds like a high school drama game.
Imported Posted December 9, 2012 Posted December 9, 2012 Only read the title, but I am going with....he can see himself with you, but wonders if he can do "better".
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