lynngv Posted December 9, 2012 Posted December 9, 2012 Recieved news from my lawyer on Friday,divorce procedings have been filed,starts on January 7th,2013.I handed him the copies of the police reports when the cops were called out which my estranged husband Mikey was arrested for domestic violence also convicted of.I even gave the phone number of the therapist I am seeing,I have post traumatic stress disorder from the abuse which my husband did to me which is under control with medication.I seen him on Friday,an appointment.Plans are getting spousal support if the judge agrees.He has a 4 wheeler,a Polaris that is in my name and he took that when I kicked him out on December 1st.Took it out of the garage without letting me know.He says it is his and it is not.I purchased it 3 years ago brand new,he has bad credit from a huge credit card bill that took him a long time to pay off.I still have the original purchase papers and the title.This another thing I want back too.I found out all he wants are the engagement and wedding ring from me,I told my lawyer he can have them.I plan on cleaning him out teaching him a lesson for the abuse,cheating on me and putting me down he did to me.
SuperGeek Posted December 9, 2012 Posted December 9, 2012 Nice. Sounds like justice was served (or will about to be). Congrats to you for being strong and taking the opportunity to move on from this abusive cycle.
Author lynngv Posted December 9, 2012 Author Posted December 9, 2012 The cheating,I could not take either.He now has two kids by two of the women he cheated on me with.My estranged husband signed the divorce papers the same day I kicked him out.He is going to pay for what he did to me.
Balzac Posted December 9, 2012 Posted December 9, 2012 Reality is that he will pay to the extent that the court orders unless he agrees to a more generous settlement.
M30USA Posted December 9, 2012 Posted December 9, 2012 If your husband truly did assault and abuse you, I'm glad justice was served. I wish I could say the same. My wife assaulted me numerous times, including with a long board, the police even took her away, and she pled guilty in court. Yet she still got primary custody of my kids because courts are afraid to remove kids from their moms even in our modern age. She will be allowed to have it removed from her record in 2 years. The only benefit I got was to have my children 50% of the time during the temporary order period.
Yasuandio Posted December 9, 2012 Posted December 9, 2012 Reality is that he will pay to the extent that the court orders unless he agrees to a more generous settlement. "Pay" could mean many things other than Court orders and financial settlements. There is certainly more than one teaching methodology for delivering a "lesson" with regards to cheating. For now, she is GD angry - and I sure I wouldn't want to be in his shoes (or her's). Yas
Author lynngv Posted December 9, 2012 Author Posted December 9, 2012 He abused me,last time was a plate he threw at me and left a gash on my forehead.He has punched,hit and slapped me for the last 3 years.I kept the copies of the police records,same police officer that came out everytime.We had stocks together,I decided to get out of it last year and never recieved a dime from him yet.It was my money I put them in and he promised to pay me back the money several times.I have the written contract for this and my lawyer has it now.
M30USA Posted December 10, 2012 Posted December 10, 2012 He abused me,last time was a plate he threw at me and left a gash on my forehead.He has punched,hit and slapped me for the last 3 years.I kept the copies of the police records,same police officer that came out everytime.We had stocks together,I decided to get out of it last year and never recieved a dime from him yet.It was my money I put them in and he promised to pay me back the money several times.I have the written contract for this and my lawyer has it now. Gosh. Well that's abuse. I had to ask because there are many false accusations of abuse so I don't assume anything until it's obvious. What the hell is wrong with a person who throws a dish at their spouse? I can understand smashing a dish in private or away from people to vent frustration (even that's a sign of violent tendencies) but to throw a dish AT your spouse is just ridiculous. That crap should stop in 2nd grade. There is clearly something mentally deranged about anyone who would do such a thing.
Author lynngv Posted December 10, 2012 Author Posted December 10, 2012 We had an arguement over my work hours,I just came home from a gun auction that night and he did not like my work hours.I co own a gun shop with my parents,the guns I bought that night were for resale and he thought they were going in my collection which I told him these guns were not going in my gun collection.After the arguement,I witnessed him pick up the plate and threw it at me hitting me in the forehead.Worst part was my son and daughter witnessed it too.He also has hit me with a baseball bat leaving me with a cocussion and slapped me in the face.Plus he has told me that he does not love me anymore and married life is boring.
Yasuandio Posted December 10, 2012 Posted December 10, 2012 Is he stupid, or what? Like, I don't think he should mess with you, Madam. Yas
Author lynngv Posted December 11, 2012 Author Posted December 11, 2012 He knows not to mess with me,I know how to shoot a gun since I was 11 years old.He acts stupid,I caught him cheating on me twice and was wrong that I could not catch him in the act.
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