missingu Posted December 9, 2012 Posted December 9, 2012 am attracted to my boss.I thought about doing him several times,all different ways.At the start he always singled me out and gave me a tough time..i started flirting and he didnt tell me off at all from then on . He is a flirt too.He smiles at me alot,laughs and makes jokes,he has been nervous with me before,lots of looking at each other.I've seen him checking out my body.Called me princess,questioned where i live because he thought it had changed.. He is married so we could never act on it.His wife and kids are beautiful. I got transferred for a little while at work..he knew and didnt want me to be..my coworker told me when he was asked about me,he wasnt happy about me being transferred because i am a really good worker. He even told me i am one of his favourite workers.He stares at me in a group to the point sometimes it makes me uncomfortable and sometimes i think it makes him uncomfortable too.He also watches me when i talk to other men too and makes sure they arent harassing me. If im upset and he finds out even a week later he asks me who upset me. Now i stopped flirting since i came back to my shift to try get over it but the feeling doesnt go away.and he has started giving me a tough time again so i have completely shut down on him.I am not flirting with him at all I guess i want to know because i saw a psychic who told me there is something with an authority figure that could happen and there will be an oppurtunity for an affair and if i decide to go down that path to think of the persons family before acting on anything. He is on holidays and im gonna miss him and i feel like an idiot?
whichwayisup Posted December 9, 2012 Posted December 9, 2012 He is married so we could never act on it.His wife and kids are beautiful. AND he's your boss, so yes, having lustful thoughts of having a possible affair with him IS crossing the line. Do you want to have the reputation as the OW who helped split up a family unit? Unfortunately society views the affair partner, whether it be the woman or the man, in a worse view of light than the actual married person.. To knowingly get involved with someone who is married is just asking for trouble, heartache and pain. Not only for his wife and kids, but for you! Stop flirting with him, focus your energy on your work as that's what you're being paid for. Take your love, care and heart and find a single man who will love ONLY you. Lusting after your married boss is pointless and will ruin your work reputation, as well as your heart.
ComingInHot Posted December 9, 2012 Posted December 9, 2012 Yes. You are already crossing the line. I encourage you to read & absorb all the Tories you can as fast as u can in both the OW/OM AND INFIDELITY forums. They should give you a pretty good glimpse of the road you are already heading down. There is a thread (I believe in the OW/OM forum) about a young woman who's boss has greased her perfectly into becoming the OW. Luckily she came here and (we r all hoping) she has had her eyes opened into what a jackhole these MM /boss authority figures are! I am supporting you to make a good choice and behave in a way that you and all that know you can be proud of*
Mary Shadows Posted December 16, 2012 Posted December 16, 2012 am attracted to my boss.I thought about doing him several times,all different ways.At the start he always singled me out and gave me a tough time..i started flirting and he didnt tell me off at all from then on . He is a flirt too.He smiles at me alot,laughs and makes jokes,he has been nervous with me before,lots of looking at each other.I've seen him checking out my body.Called me princess,questioned where i live because he thought it had changed.. He is married so we could never act on it.His wife and kids are beautiful. I got transferred for a little while at work..he knew and didnt want me to be..my coworker told me when he was asked about me,he wasnt happy about me being transferred because i am a really good worker. He even told me i am one of his favourite workers.He stares at me in a group to the point sometimes it makes me uncomfortable and sometimes i think it makes him uncomfortable too.He also watches me when i talk to other men too and makes sure they arent harassing me. If im upset and he finds out even a week later he asks me who upset me. Now i stopped flirting since i came back to my shift to try get over it but the feeling doesnt go away.and he has started giving me a tough time again so i have completely shut down on him.I am not flirting with him at all I guess i want to know because i saw a psychic who told me there is something with an authority figure that could happen and there will be an oppurtunity for an affair and if i decide to go down that path to think of the persons family before acting on anything. He is on holidays and im gonna miss him and i feel like an idiot? I ATM have a HUGE problem lusting after my boss. He is so sexy, and I know it's a big problem, but I can't stop it either. I totally relate.
Author missingu Posted December 16, 2012 Author Posted December 16, 2012 I ATM have a HUGE problem lusting after my boss. He is so sexy, and I know it's a big problem, but I can't stop it either. I totally relate. Its good because the days go faster..but its so awkward..i wish the awkwardness would go away and we could just be normal.He makes it awkward. One minute he flirts and the next he gets moody if i dont pay him attention. He watches me talk to guys.He is protective..but then he is a total ass. and i get so nervous..its ridiculous lol. glad someone out there can relate.
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