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ImperfectionisBeauty Established Member

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I'm just going to be optimistic about the whole thing. Of course there are guys who will put their penis in anything, there are women who will open their legs to anything... It's life it happens, you just have to find the one person who isn't like that. It's just 1 person, out of a ton :)

Disenchantedly Yours Established Member

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I share your pain. I am also disgusted with a majority of the human beings.

 

Human beings totally suck! Down with humanity!

somedude81 Established Member

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I know some of you won't approve but I have been conducting a little experiment.

 

I made a fake OKC profile using a picture of a girl with kind of pretty face but clearly very overweight. Profile is short and dumb-ish. I answered some match questions too to make it look more real. I put her body type as a "little extra", although the pictures show that there is a LOT extra.

 

Using fake profile, I have messaged most of the guys I have met through OKC during the last year. Most of them claimed to me that:

 

a) they hate casual sex and would never do it (of course, that comes after I mention something like that first) or

 

b) that they can't even "get it up" if a girl is not hot

 

They actually volunteered that info for me and were never even asked.

 

Keep in mind that I don't care for any of these guys, I have rejected most due to other reasons or things didn't work out. I always had a feeling that above statements were lies but I told myself that I am being too untrusting.

 

Anyhow, after couple of messages - this girl tells them that she is currently in a relationship but is looking for casual sex on the side (and hoping her bf doesn't find out ;)) - so not only this overweight girl is looking for NSA sex but she is cheating too.

 

EVERY. SINGLE. ONE. agreed to this. They full on wanted to make specific plans to come to this girl's house and f... her.

 

So they have lied to me and they would f.. anything and obviously have no problems with casual sex. I have also uncovered more interesting info: one guy that was most vocal about the fact that he never did casual sex in fact frequented group sex parties every few months.. etc etc.

 

I was hoping that one will say no to this, but NONE did :(

 

I just don't know why I am even called untrusting when an overwhelming majority of men (and humans in general) are filthy liars with no integrity :sick:

Of course men are into casual sex.

 

Those guys you knew just told you they were against it because they thought it was what you wanted to hear. And apparently it was.

 

Yes guys are horny and will sleep with almost anything decent looking. Are you surprised by this?

Disenchantedly Yours Established Member

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I think it is really unfair (and somewhat ironic) to bait single men with casual sex, and then be disgusted when they say yes.

 

Not really. It's what we do when no one is looking that says the most about us. If you are on your best behavior only at face value, what does that really say about you?

somedude81 Established Member

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And of course, lets not pretend that women aren't into casual sex either.

 

ES, how many guys have you told that you don't do casual sex and then hook up with the next pretty boy you meet?

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lino Established Member

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You mean there are blokes out there who will root anything with a hole?!?!? WOW! Nobody was aware of that surely... :rolleyes:

 

Next you'll tell us you discovered married men visit brothels!

 

Funny things is, these type of guys get the most positive attention from women. The OP is living proof!

 

Guys unlike that are easy to find, women just aren't generally interested in em.

 

Um, who's photo are you using? Does she know you're doing this? Has she given permission? If she hasn't, I would think you're on the verge of breaking a law, and even if it's not technically illegal, it's incredibly immoral.

 

How would you like it if someone put a picture of you on an online dating site with a 'dumb' profile and a message to say you were begging for NSA sex??

 

I really hope she's ok with what you're doing, otherwise, this may be the lowest thing I've seen on here...

 

Yeah, utterly bottom of the barrel stuff from the OP. Wonder how she'd like it if someone did it to her?

 

Someone desperately needs some hobbies...

 

Pretty sure I've seen this poster talk about her fwb(s) on this site so I'm not sure why she's against casual sex.

 

People like this poster is why I never have and never will do online dating. This is the type of women you get on it.

Disenchantedly Yours Established Member

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If a Man made a similar thread but said he was "disgusted" by women he'd be crucified :laugh:

 

Those threads are made all the time on here. Usually it's about "I'm disgusted by over weight women."... or something to that affect. Like: "I think women with fake breast are gross!" or " I think women with small breasts should get breast jobs!"

 

 

ES, you should try this experiment on various websites to see how different men respond. Such as J-Date or ChristianMingle or Eharmony. Since EHarmony adervises itself as a more serious dating website.

ThaWholigan Established Member

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And of course, lets not pretend that women aren't into casual sex either.

 

ES, how many guys have you told that you don't do casual sex and then hook up with the next pretty boy you meet?

:laugh: checkmate

 

I have turned down casual sex before - I relented for two reasons - 1. I was a virgin and 2. She was hot, single and didn't make a fuss about my virginity. Same with the other girl.

 

Regarding casual sex, some men will find it difficult to resist even if they don't like casual sex or if they are in a dry spell.

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Disenchantedly Yours Established Member

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Of course men are into casual sex.

 

Those guys you knew just told you they were against it because they thought it was what you wanted to hear. And apparently it was.

 

Yes guys are horny and will sleep with almost anything decent looking. Are you surprised by this?

 

So basically men and casual sex are synonomous with each other. And men will lie to you to get sex. Because sex is what is most important to men.

johan Established Member

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I know some of you won't approve but I have been conducting a little experiment.

 

I made a fake OKC profile using a picture of a girl with kind of pretty face but clearly very overweight. Profile is short and dumb-ish. I answered some match questions too to make it look more real. I put her body type as a "little extra", although the pictures show that there is a LOT extra.

 

Using fake profile, I have messaged most of the guys I have met through OKC during the last year. Most of them claimed to me that:

 

a) they hate casual sex and would never do it (of course, that comes after I mention something like that first) or

 

b) that they can't even "get it up" if a girl is not hot

 

They actually volunteered that info for me and were never even asked.

 

Keep in mind that I don't care for any of these guys, I have rejected most due to other reasons or things didn't work out. I always had a feeling that above statements were lies but I told myself that I am being too untrusting.

 

Anyhow, after couple of messages - this girl tells them that she is currently in a relationship but is looking for casual sex on the side (and hoping her bf doesn't find out ;)) - so not only this overweight girl is looking for NSA sex but she is cheating too.

 

EVERY. SINGLE. ONE. agreed to this. They full on wanted to make specific plans to come to this girl's house and f... her.

 

So they have lied to me and they would f.. anything and obviously have no problems with casual sex. I have also uncovered more interesting info: one guy that was most vocal about the fact that he never did casual sex in fact frequented group sex parties every few months.. etc etc.

 

I was hoping that one will say no to this, but NONE did :(

 

I just don't know why I am even called untrusting when an overwhelming majority of men (and humans in general) are filthy liars with no integrity :sick:

 

There were two steps in this process. 1) You selected some guys based on some criteria, and 2) you tested them and they failed. You are concentrating on step 2, but step 1 set the stage for the whole thing. And you were the key participant in step 1. What were the criteria? What did the guys have in common?

 

In my experience, I wouldn't expect guys to take the "fat girl's offer." I definitely wouldn't spend any time with her or arrange to meet her. So I just think the most interesting part of this story is in step 1. If these were guys you had an interest in to some extent, then I think the natural result is that you're going to change what kind of guy you're interested in. And if you repeat the test after that, you should find you get a different result.

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xxoo Established Member

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Those threads are made all the time on here. Usually it's about "I'm disgusted by over weight women."...

 

In this thread, the OP (a woman) used a photo of an overweight woman, and is apparently disgusted that the men she dated want to have sex with the overweight woman in the picture.

 

Apparently, men are not as disgusted by overweight women as some assume!

iris219 Established Member

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Many men don't know what they'd do when offered casual sex because it's never happened to them before.

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Disenchantedly Yours Established Member

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In this thread, the OP (a woman) used a photo of an overweight woman, and is apparently disgusted that the men she dated want to have sex with the overweight woman in the picture.

 

Apparently, men are not as disgusted by overweight women as some assume!

 

They just wanted to have sex with anything female. Now see if they would date that woman seriously and the tune may change. When it comes to men, them simply wanting to sleep with a woman is not all that flattering or promising. Especially when you have men in this very thread talking about how men will have sex with anything with a warm "hole".

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Mme. Chaucer Established Member

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Now, as a control, why don't you make a fake thread that's a guy. A pretty poor looking guy (not horrible, though) who says he's married, but unhappy, and wants an exciting, pretty girl on the side. He'll take complete care of setting her up in a beautiful home and spend time traveling the world with her, and he LOVES to buy gifts. He'll only have a few weeks out of the year to spend with her, and she is free to live her life as she chooses the rest of the time. Contact some single girls with online dating profiles and compile the results.

 

Actually, it would be better if a guy carried out this particular experiment to counterbalance the bias you'll understandably have towards "proving" that men are more debased than women are. There is this one frequent poster who never stops reporting his "results" from fake profiles he puts up - he'll probably do it for you.

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xxoo Established Member

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They just wanted to have sex with anything female. Now see if they would date that woman seriously and the tune may change. When it comes to men, them simply wanting to sleep with a woman is not all that flattering or promising. Especially when you have men in this very thread talking about how men will have sex with anything with a warm "hole".

 

Is it better that women will only have casual sex with super hot guys?

 

Because, as we've seen time and time again (even from the OP), women will have casual sex, if the guy is hot enough.

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KathyM Established Member

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I don't think you can generalize this attitude to all men. I know single men who HAVE been hit on by women for casual sex and they turned those women down. Believe it or not, there are some men who have values and morals out there. But they are the exception, and are outnumbered by the guys who have no values, and would stick it in anyone who offered it up.

veggirl Established Member

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Who even has time to do s.hit like this?

 

I'm not even sure if it is true. OP why don't you post the link to the profile so we can see what these guys were willing to fk.

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ThaWholigan Established Member

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Who even has time to do s.hit like this?

 

I'm not even sure if it is true. OP why don't you post the link to the profile so we can see what these guys were willing to fk.

Yeah, where's Colez Fanboy when you need him, he would have been more thorough :laugh:

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Later82012 Established Member

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Human beings totally suck! Down with humanity!

:laugh: I like you.

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Lonely Ronin Established Member

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They just wanted to have sex with anything female. Now see if they would date that woman seriously and the tune may change. When it comes to men, them simply wanting to sleep with a woman is not all that flattering or promising. Especially when you have men in this very thread talking about how men will have sex with anything with a warm "hole".

are you unable to weight responses? I mean honestly, you should consider a posters history, before you assume that they speak for the rest of us.

soccerrprp Established Member

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So basically men and casual sex are synonomous with each other. And men will lie to you to get sex. Because sex is what is most important to men.

 

I admit that sex is important, but man o man, please do not put all of us men with the other sleeze-bags. I am hoping for something genuine and found that the ladies are equally prone to being superficial as well. I am offended, but who cares, right?

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Disenchantedly Yours Established Member

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Is it better that women will only have casual sex with super hot guys?

 

Because, as we've seen time and time again (even from the OP), women will have casual sex, if the guy is hot enough.

 

I am not a fan of casual sex either way. The subject of this thread was not about women having casual sex. I am very aware that some women do enjoy casual sex with hot men. Not the topic! How about just actually talking about the actual topic instead of the old point and look over there move.

Disenchantedly Yours Established Member

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are you unable to weight responses? I mean honestly, you should consider a posters history, before you assume that they speak for the rest of us.

 

Okay then share what you think about this topic. If you don't agree with what some of the guys are saying, say how you disagree.

Disenchantedly Yours Established Member

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I admit that sex is important, but man o man, please do not put all of us men with the other sleeze-bags. I am hoping for something genuine and found that the ladies are equally prone to being superficial as well. I am offended, but who cares, right?

 

Well I hope you find what you are looking for Soccerrprp.

musemaj11 Established Member

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Men are horndogs and women are gold diggers.

 

This experiment is no different than when a man creates a fake OLD profile in which he lists himself as making six figure salary and find all women saying 'YES' to him.

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