todreaminblue Posted December 12, 2012 Posted December 12, 2012 When a guy says that I obviously think it's his code word for sex. I wonder, can you guys cuddle with a sexy woman you have never slept with before and not want more? I think it's almost impossible. I have been able to cuddle guys in bed without sex and not take my clothes off.....th eguys i have cuddled in bed were nice guys when i said no they respected when i say no its a no ...i dont go no no no yes yes...its no ......an dbefore they were in my bed they knew that anyway...because i told them straight up...no is no to me.....you need to know that and dont push me.....and they didnt.....deb
todreaminblue Posted December 12, 2012 Posted December 12, 2012 I can, if I really like the girl.. then again though, I am not a "real man" according to some women's standards. So maybe that doesn't count. Fun fact: I just recently told a girl that I would love to cuddle with her until she falls asleep in my arms and what not, and I really meant that. Apparently she took it as a code for sex and told me few days later that she is not some kind of booty call option. I was perplexed, as I never thought of her that way. I would, however, only be open to that cuddling scenario if there was clearly enough sexual attraction for me on her part. Enough to make me confident she is not using me for cuddling only while getting her brains effed out by some dumb jock or something. Also, if I don't really like her, I'd prefer fast sex over cuddling greatly. i was going to like yoru post until i read the last sentence ...no like for you...you suck....deb
todreaminblue Posted December 12, 2012 Posted December 12, 2012 I remember cuddling with my ex; it not only gave me a chance to just be near her, but gave me a great chance to speak comfortably to her. Nothing loud, just comforting words, usually about the future. In the end, neither cuddling nor sex compared to just talking to her; but I am odd like that, as her voice was rather something I cared deeply to hear. A touch can be forgotten ,or replaced, but certain words and sounds are rarely ever forgotten. you rock.....deb
Radu Posted December 12, 2012 Posted December 12, 2012 When a guy says that I obviously think it's his code word for sex. I wonder, can you guys cuddle with a sexy woman you have never slept with before and not want more? I think it's almost impossible. This scenario that you described would be possible in my mind only if : - guy has mommy issues - guy is religious freak - guy has madonna/whore complex - guy is a wuss who likes to orbit the hot girl Yes, if you haven't slept with him it's either the above or he wants to have sex with you.
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