buzzie2 Posted December 9, 2012 Posted December 9, 2012 There is this guy who I was really interested in who I thought liked me back. He had invited me over to his place for a party he was having. I thought we both had a good time. But then he never asked me out after that and avoided me. I also found out he was dating several other girls, none who he was serious about. So I moved on, and started showing interest in other guys. Now suddenly he is acting interested in me again. I am being cautious about him because he has already hurt me and because of his reputation as a player. Should I give him a second chance?
todreaminblue Posted December 9, 2012 Posted December 9, 2012 There is this guy who I was really interested in who I thought liked me back. He had invited me over to his place for a party he was having. I thought we both had a good time. But then he never asked me out after that and avoided me. I also found out he was dating several other girls, none who he was serious about. So I moved on, and started showing interest in other guys. Now suddenly he is acting interested in me again. I am being cautious about him because he has already hurt me and because of his reputation as a player. Should I give him a second chance? two things don't really add up if he was seeing several girls but didn't go for you ...i would question the player rep......if he is acting interested now...another possibility it could be a play as a pua who ignored you and then reels you in.....getting to know soemone is a risk falling in love is a risk anyway....dating is a definite risk i think you should give a guy a second chance though.....but go into it with your eyes open....with those eyes open allow your heart to be open to the possibility he just changed his mind or heart as he got to know you.......i wish you all the best...life is about second chances and forgiveness.people can will and do change their hearts and minds....i have to believe in that..otherwise i havent changed at all myself....from then till now.and i know in my heart that everyone has the capacity to change.deb 1
Tara247 Posted December 9, 2012 Posted December 9, 2012 If he dated several other girls at the same time, NO!
NoMoreJerks Posted December 9, 2012 Posted December 9, 2012 There is this guy who I was really interested in who I thought liked me back. He had invited me over to his place for a party he was having. I thought we both had a good time. But then he never asked me out after that and avoided me. I also found out he was dating several other girls, none who he was serious about. So I moved on, and started showing interest in other guys. Now suddenly he is acting interested in me again. I am being cautious about him because he has already hurt me and because of his reputation as a player. Should I give him a second chance? This is a case of him wanting to have what he can't have - that sorta thing. I don't have enough details, but he seems to be the narcissistic type , and a player. Especially if he was dating several other girls at the same time. I mean, if he was doing that for sure, then you have your answer loud and clear...............
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