simplybrill Posted August 11, 2004 Posted August 11, 2004 update on my little metro friend: I dunno if he's nervous in women's stores, or just nervous around me in general...but he was being really spastic. I dont know why I hang out with this dude anymore... We were at the shops, and I was looking around, and if we passed by any store where there were short skirts, or questionable tops, he would spout things like 'whore clothes" or "hey that would look good on the girls on the corner of blank and blank" Now I dont wear the stuff that looks trashy, there are some ok tops in these stores sometimes, but it offended me as a woman when he said those things. Not to mention the store was pretty expensive, and people were starting to look because they could hear him. Im thinking excuse me...cant I just look around or go shopping with you anymore without you being a jerk? I was speechless, and I gave him that 'what the hell just came out of your mouth??" look I dont know if he has issues with women, or what...or if he just has no respect for me in general anymore...and I wont even mention the way he left my bathroom when I let him use it...needless to say me and my roomate were appalled...really it was just gross. I filled up his gas tank which I didnt mind, cuz he did the driving yesterday, he was broke after we got pizza (that was only like $7???) (and its a good 45 mins to my place), but he showed up an hour early- and all I got in return was jerky behavior...if he has a problem, why cant he just SAY something. Guys? Input here please, maybe Im missing something.
YellowLioness Posted August 11, 2004 Posted August 11, 2004 Wow, I'd be mad, too! That's really rude! Here are my opinions: 1. He could have just had a bad day at work, and it was affecting his social life 2. He just doesn't know any better 3. He's afraid you like him, so he's being a jerk to make sure that you know he's not interested in you 4. He thinks he's being witty 5. He's treating you like one of the guys
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