So frustrating

[kyle77]

My ex is starting to see someone else. It makes me so mad and I dont even know why. My ex dumped me and took all my power away from me. Then we were in the same university class so I saw her everyday for 6 months after our break-up. Now its been a year and she is starting to see someone else and it makes me furious! Why cant she see that I would treat her so much better than this guy would. What am I supposed to do? Just suck up the fact that I still and may always have feelings for her while she goes frolicking off with this guy completely unaware of how much she means to me. It just makes me so mad that she can find happiness, or whatever this guy may be, while I am still trying to find happiness with other people but it just makes it worse that its not her.

 

Im so sick of loving her and wishing her the best even though we arent together and her acting as if I dont exist....last night i prayed for my ex....who does that? I just hate that I cant make her as happy as I want to. It seems like I go through phases where I try to get over her and then phases where I just hope that one day everything will fall into place again. But I dont know how to truly move on. Then I hear that by truly moving on I have a better chance of getting her back, which seems counterproductive. I guess I just need to rant....any advice is appreciated.

[Cutiepie1976]

It gets better...eventually.

[kyle77]

It gets better...eventually.

 

I sure hope so, because this just feels pointless....its like a new kind of pain, at the start of the break up there was pain but this is more just like hopeless pain if that makes sense

[jwhite]

How do you know that she is seeing someone else?

[kyle77]

I looked on her twitter....I know I shouldn't have but I couldn't help it. I don't know for sure that she is seeing someone. I just have a hunch that she is seeing this guy based on the conversations they're having.