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Just curious if anyone has been dumped, and your ex immediately went to someone new. Then after some time, did your ex want to try to get back with you again? I'm worried that I will be weak someday if/when she wants to come back to me when she gets tired of this new guy.

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F*** that for a dollar! I refuse to be 2nd best.

 

If someone is too stupid to realise what they have in me, and go searching for god knows what elsewhere, then they can go stuff themselves. My ego does not permit such brinkmanship.

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Papillon is dead straight on this one.

 

If my ex has been with someone else and then comes back to me, he either has b*lls the size of Texas or a brain tumor the size of Rhode Island, because he knows the reception he would receive.

 

Don't worry about being weak when/if the time comes. If you do "the work" you probably won't even be tempted.

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No, I have not, but I have been the new person that the guy dated, and then he went back to his ex. However, he has broken up with her a total of 4 times, before and after me...IMO, any girl who takes back a guy that many times has very little self-respect. The guy is still a friend of mine but can't sort himself out, and they clearly have problems. So stay strong, don't go back unless things have changed.

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yes, i did it, and it was an extremly bad idea - cause as you mention - she did go of with someone else and at a later date (about 8months i think) we did get back togethor - 'i've changed' - classic line - what happened 3 weeks ago - she did it again, not so bad this time as i'm aware whats going on with my feelings and have been through the exact situation with this person before - so i know what to expect, and also know exactly what i'm not doing this time! I dont think its madness to go back to someone, i think it comes down to each indiviual situation and the two people involved - and thats always differant!

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ouch.. yea, im still hurting over being dumped for his current gf.. it is the BIGGEST stab in the heart, i can still feel it and its been almost a year since he left me for her. right after it happened, i could not see clearly at all -- i kept saying that i would take him back in a heartbeat.. but let's face it, it still hurts and nothing can take that pain away.. i have dated other people, 1 serious boyfriend since him, but the fact of the matter is is that he chose someone else over me. ouch!

 

at this point, with being with her for so long already, i know that i couldn't take him back if he ever did come back. because i know he didn't really love me if he left me, ya know?

 

keep your head up and stay strong no matter what.. you can feel weak, we all do, but when someone hurts you, its hard to just forget that..

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well, I dumped Junior to be with Chris but later Chris turned out to be such a

 

jerkso I asked Junior to take me back.........and he said it was a little too late

 

 

for that!! If I could go back in time I would have never broken up with Junior to

 

be with Chris, Junior was nice and safe and treated me right, Chris was a big

 

waste of time, he was a jerk and totally unpredictable and didn't know how to

 

treat me.....unfortunately I didn't realize what I had until I lost it....I only feel

 

sorry that I had to learn the hard way, if I had stayed with Junior I think

 

Iwould be really happy.....but instead, I am heartbroken and without either one

 

 

little advice: don't make the same mistake I did!!!!

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