avon20 Posted December 8, 2012 Posted December 8, 2012 Meaning they won't accept a relationship with me if I only want to see them on a part time basis. They either want full time relationship or nothing at all. I only want to see my girlfriend twice a week for the rest of my life. No sex, no spending the night together, no marriage!
Bodie Posted December 8, 2012 Posted December 8, 2012 Hmm.... can't you see that means the relationship is on your terms. After all being in a relationship is about 2 people and their responsibilities with each other. Relationships isn't a contract nor should it be selfish 2
dasein Posted December 9, 2012 Posted December 9, 2012 Why have a GF if you don't want sex, frequent contact or marriage? If that's really how you feel, just get more guy friends and some platonic female friends for when you need a casual date to something. 2
lovesick1 Posted December 9, 2012 Posted December 9, 2012 A lot of women aren't like that.. all are, and all men are who actually want a relationship. Take some time to think what that is
allenpo123 Posted December 9, 2012 Posted December 9, 2012 To be honest, if someone told me that I would run as fast as I could. It feels like it's not worth the time and effort since it will never have a future.
crude Posted December 9, 2012 Posted December 9, 2012 The problem is you're calling her your GF. Just say you want a female friend. It's a different thing.
Nightsky Posted December 9, 2012 Posted December 9, 2012 Why say all this upfront? Is giving this weird speech to a girl part of what you want out of a gf? I really wouldn't consider this a lot of women wanting all or nothing. Kind of seems like you want all your demands or nothing. 1
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