bitterruin Posted December 8, 2012 Posted December 8, 2012 It's been two months since we broke up and almost two weeks with absolutely NC. I can feel my friends getting tired of me whining and crying, saying how much I miss him so I've started to say that I'm happy and that everything's fine. And truth is I'm in a better place than I was the first couple of weeks when we were still trying to be friends. But I get so lonely sometimes and I'm keeping myself from texting him how much I miss him, I've been resisting but I feel myself almost falter. I still find myself crying when I'm overwhelmed with the sadness, hoping he'll text me telling me he loves but I feel like he's already moved on and doesn't care at all.
tuxedo cat Posted December 8, 2012 Posted December 8, 2012 I'm in the same place. The feeling that the ex doesn't care is what makes it hardest. Hang in there.
Razur Posted December 9, 2012 Posted December 9, 2012 I feel your pain Bitterruin, I truly do. I am in a similar situation. I loved her with all my heart. Day before she broke up with me she was laying on me, rubbing my arm, as if she loved me. Then breaks up the next day? Made no sense to me and crushed me beyond belief. I do the same things, stare at my phone waiting for texts, fantasize about her calling me saying she made a huge mistake, imagining giving her a big hug and her telling me she is so sorry. Probably will never happen.
Esoteric Elf Posted December 9, 2012 Posted December 9, 2012 Sorry if this comes across as too intrusive, but what caused the break-up? Is there any hope of reconciliation? Depression is a viscious cycle. Doing what you love can ease the pain, but not rid yourself fully of it depending on how much sadness you feel. Try taking pleasure in the little things that you may have done before the relationship. If you liked gardening, read up on that. If you enjoyed an early morning jog, keep that up. If you are still doing the things you enjoyed before the relationship, try picking up a new hobby. Who knows? In the purusual of this new hobby, you may find another potential person.
Buns Posted December 10, 2012 Posted December 10, 2012 I feel excatly the same way, wishing every day that he'd change his mind, that he's secretly missing me. But he won't, and he's not...
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