WhatsYourDamage Posted December 8, 2012 Posted December 8, 2012 (edited) what if you had a breakup & you were in a situation where you still wanted to be with & make it work but they had no desire to...and you kept pushing the subject (bad idea in hindsight) you wouldnt let up and you eve appeared desperate while the explicitly said no....they would never ignore you but it was obvious they were tired, fed up & exhausted with you continuing to try to be with them but they still picked up your calls and texts....what if eventually you had a huge fight & they blew up on you...told you they hated you...called you a bitch...said they dont like you...told you to leave them alone now & that they were going to block your number & that they dont want you in their life etc. what if all this happens your hurt...but you finally got "closure" even though they had been saying it all along you now REALLY know its over...there is no chance....you believe they hate you..you believe they dont like you...you believe they are blockign your number...you believe its over...& you finally dont even feel the need to contact them anymore. what if just days later...they send you a link to something...something they had worked on when you were together so instead of ignore it you give a short response just saying "you did good" ( i know thats considered a "breadcrumb" & i probably shouldnt have answered but i knew how important it was to them) from there you think thats that..you think its strange they said all those awful things to you & then still message you a day later...but you chalk it up to circumstances & leave it....what if 2 days after that they tag you in something that reads "examine what you tolerate".....you don't respond...especially since it wasnt even direct.... but now i just dont get it....is this out of pity/remorse for saying those mean things? is he checking to see if i hate him for saying all of that? i just cant even fathom why he's still be contacting me...telling me to examine what i tolerate for responding to his message after he called me a bitch? Edited December 8, 2012 by WhatsYourDamage
Quest4_TheLost Posted December 8, 2012 Posted December 8, 2012 We can all give you our opinions of what this guy is doing dosen't mean we're right. So I'm going to give you my idea of the best solution! STOP! STOP! STOP! He dosen't want to be with you and even went the extra mile to tell you he hates you and is blocking you. What more do you need to know? That maybe he feels some kind of regret thinking "Well now I won't get my ego stroked with her chasing me anymore". So I will drop some bait here and there to see how long I continue to pull the strings. Your head is going to EXPLODE if you keep trying to figure out every little @ssclown thing he does. I wouldn't reply to him anymore if I were you. I know your hurting and it sux. But if he were genuinly sorry and felt bad for what he had said, he would come to you and say that. Its not our jobs to play detective with people and anylize every little msg and gesture. You know all you need to know by his words. Take them at face value and pls don't torture yourself!!
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