Necris Posted December 8, 2012 Posted December 8, 2012 A month ago I asked this girl out who initially seemed to be into me as she approached me first, but she turned down my offer for a date, I saw her again earlier today and I was wondering would it be a good or bad idea to try asking her out again?
Carenth Posted December 8, 2012 Posted December 8, 2012 ermm unless something drastic has happened in between that time and now, I would say no? You haven't given us a lot of detail as to why you think she would have changed her mind. Generally speaking if I ask a girl out and get shot down I don't ask again unless there is something that has changed.
Author Necris Posted December 8, 2012 Author Posted December 8, 2012 ermm unless something drastic has happened in between that time and now, I would say no? You haven't given us a lot of detail as to why you think she would have changed her mind. Generally speaking if I ask a girl out and get shot down I don't ask again unless there is something that has changed. I wanted to try again mainly due to a random thought, so yeah... As for her changing her mind I have no idea, when she told me initially that she couldn't go out it was because she already had plans but she never elaborated on what that was. Though surprisingly she seems to still act really friendly towards me.
Carenth Posted December 8, 2012 Posted December 8, 2012 I've been in the reverse situation where a girl had asked me out I used a similar excuse as a gentle brush off... When she asked me again I had too explain to her I was just not interested in her that way. I did not dislike her, I just I had no feelings for her. So yeah as I said unless there is something that has changed since then, I would say it's probably not worth it.
Author Necris Posted December 8, 2012 Author Posted December 8, 2012 I've been in the reverse situation where a girl had asked me out I used a similar excuse as a gentle brush off... When she asked me again I had too explain to her I was just not interested in her that way. I did not dislike her, I just I had no feelings for her. So yeah as I said unless there is something that has changed since then, I would say it's probably not worth it. Yeah you're probably right, if she has already rejected me once she'll just do it again. I should be looking for another girl to ask out. But who...?
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