ls32ssibm Posted December 8, 2012 Posted December 8, 2012 (edited) I am the furthest thing from a PUA (it's probably pretty obvious), but I was thinking of some ways to approach girls which I may do this weekend while doing my Christmas shopping if any stand out. Most notably, I think it may be a decent approach because it helps determine the age of the girl, which can be an issue for guys in their early 20s. Just get her attention and say "excuse me, miss? You look very familiar, do you go to (name a specific college)?". If she says no, hopefully (and likely if she is excited to talk to you) she will follow with "I went to..." or "I go to..." then you can say "oh, what's your major?" and get the conversation going that way. If she does in fact go to the college, the story I'm running with is that I have friends that go to the college and I visit the campus often, which is true anyway and I may have seen her once before (I went to a different school). If she just responds with a "No", I would just assume she doesn't want to be bothered. Also a decent jailbait detector if the girl proclaims she is still in high school. Thoughts? Edited December 8, 2012 by ls32ssibm
dasein Posted December 8, 2012 Posted December 8, 2012 Wouldn't lead with that. Try "Merry Christmas!" if they reply, then say, "I'm hoping for a train set, how bout you?" Then when they tell you what they want, "have you been good enough to rate that? I haven't been very good, probably end up with socks." Then "If you had a choice between gold, frankincense and myrrh, which would you choose?" then "I'd go with myrrh just to find out what the hell it is." Possibilities are endless at Christmas. YMMV on everything past "Merry Christmas!" 1
Nightsky Posted December 8, 2012 Posted December 8, 2012 Why do you have a pink my little ponies pic? I've heard of bronies but don't really know much, so explain. Oh and did my thread inspire you? You must look up to me right? I am the furthest thing from a PUA (it's probably pretty obvious), but I was thinking of some ways to approach girls which I may do this weekend while doing my Christmas shopping if any stand out. Most notably, I think it may be a decent approach because it helps determine the age of the girl, which can be an issue for guys in their early 20s. There is no such thing as a PUA, just people trying to make money and nerd out over the activity of getting girls. I do find some of the PUA stuff interesting but for the most part it's common knowledge with a pseudo science and heavy philosophical twist aimed at making money off socially inept guys. Still the stuff can be a good read I just wouldn't spend any money on it and I'd be sure to pass anything you learn through your own filter of common sense. I think it's great that you plan on being social while out shopping. A good way to go would be to ask girls for help with your shopping. Like if you're in a store getting something for your mom or sister or whatever, ask a girl you like for her opinions. Don't worry so much about jail bait. I mean if the girl is sexy but you think she's to young chances are she isn't to young. You see a girl who is to young won't be that sexy. BUTTT if you some how see a sexy girl who looks really young still ask yourself... well why do I find this girl so sexy she must be old enough. You can flirt with a girl with out it being a crime. Even ask them out with out it being a crime. You can use your college question as a jail bait detector. Remember even if they're in HS they may be old enough to date and it's not like you're a HS teacher so nothing to worry. Find out the age of consent in your state. Could be lower than 18. If you think a girl is lying to you about her age, you know like she was hot so you hit on her but than when she started talking she sounded immature like 15 than you can ask for ID when you're on the date. Make a joke about wanting to see her drivers license picture or something or her college id or what ever. Obviously if she gives you a fake ID and you screw her and the cops come just deny ever doing anything and as long as you didn't impregnate her it will be fine. Really don't worry about jail bait so much and just trust your instincts. But also don't go after old looking chicks. I mean the girls I date always have a youthful look to them and could be in their late 20's but look better than girls right out of HS. Girls might be shy when you talk to them so even if they seem like they want you to go away I say you ask them out. Don't just get the number, in fact you'll get the number after asking them out. If they don't want to go out at that point go for the number. Listen to me, the most important part is going out there and doing . YOU COME BACK AND GIVE US AN UPDATE. It's Saturday and the girls will be out in force good luck.
Nightsky Posted December 8, 2012 Posted December 8, 2012 Wouldn't lead with that. Try "Merry Christmas!" if they reply, then say, "I'm hoping for a train set, how bout you?" Then when they tell you what they want, "have you been good enough to rate that? I haven't been very good, probably end up with socks." Then "If you had a choice between gold, frankincense and myrrh, which would you choose?" then "I'd go with myrrh just to find out what the hell it is." Possibilities are endless at Christmas. YMMV on everything past "Merry Christmas!" Yeah silly flirty stuff like "I'm hoping for a train set this Christmas" just to make a girl smile is WAYyyyyyyy wayyyy better than "what college do you go to" she answers "blah blah blah college" and he goes "oh I visit that campus all the time" LAMMmeeeeeeeeee
Author ls32ssibm Posted December 8, 2012 Author Posted December 8, 2012 Why do you have a pink my little ponies pic? I've heard of bronies but don't really know much, so explain. Oh and did my thread inspire you? You must look up to me right? There is no such thing as a PUA, just people trying to make money and nerd out over the activity of getting girls. I do find some of the PUA stuff interesting but for the most part it's common knowledge with a pseudo science and heavy philosophical twist aimed at making money off socially inept guys. Still the stuff can be a good read I just wouldn't spend any money on it and I'd be sure to pass anything you learn through your own filter of common sense. I think it's great that you plan on being social while out shopping. A good way to go would be to ask girls for help with your shopping. Like if you're in a store getting something for your mom or sister or whatever, ask a girl you like for her opinions. Don't worry so much about jail bait. I mean if the girl is sexy but you think she's to young chances are she isn't to young. You see a girl who is to young won't be that sexy. BUTTT if you some how see a sexy girl who looks really young still ask yourself... well why do I find this girl so sexy she must be old enough. You can flirt with a girl with out it being a crime. Even ask them out with out it being a crime. You can use your college question as a jail bait detector. Remember even if they're in HS they may be old enough to date and it's not like you're a HS teacher so nothing to worry. Find out the age of consent in your state. Could be lower than 18. If you think a girl is lying to you about her age, you know like she was hot so you hit on her but than when she started talking she sounded immature like 15 than you can ask for ID when you're on the date. Make a joke about wanting to see her drivers license picture or something or her college id or what ever. Obviously if she gives you a fake ID and you screw her and the cops come just deny ever doing anything and as long as you didn't impregnate her it will be fine. Really don't worry about jail bait so much and just trust your instincts. But also don't go after old looking chicks. I mean the girls I date always have a youthful look to them and could be in their late 20's but look better than girls right out of HS. Girls might be shy when you talk to them so even if they seem like they want you to go away I say you ask them out. Don't just get the number, in fact you'll get the number after asking them out. If they don't want to go out at that point go for the number. Listen to me, the most important part is going out there and doing . YOU COME BACK AND GIVE US AN UPDATE. It's Saturday and the girls will be out in force good luck. I will, thanks. I'm getting my mother a Kindle (among other shopping) so I plan on having some fun with that in Barnes and Noble. Oh, and in 2012 Vampires are for girls and Ponies are for men. There are Bronies, and those who have yet to watch MLP. Look it up on Netflix and thank me later.
ErosOcean Posted December 8, 2012 Posted December 8, 2012 "Hey, Santa sent me as your Christmas gift. You can unwrap me later."
ErosOcean Posted December 8, 2012 Posted December 8, 2012 (edited) Don't say anything. Just walk up to her, look deeply in her eyes, and then play on speakers. Let the music speak for you my friend. Edited December 8, 2012 by ErosOcean
GirlontheLam Posted December 8, 2012 Posted December 8, 2012 I'll tell you one that failed on me yesterday. Him: Hi Me: Hi Him: Are you single? I'll be honest, pretty much any other question under the sun would have ben successful. I will almost always answer someone's question on the street. (As long as they don't seem super sketchy." Stuff like "I heard that new place XXX is around here somewhere. Do you know where it is, have you been?" The college one isn't bad, you might make her uncomfortable if she thinks she is supposed to remember you!
jcrew11 Posted December 8, 2012 Posted December 8, 2012 I am the furthest thing from a PUA (it's probably pretty obvious), but I was thinking of some ways to approach girls which I may do this weekend while doing my Christmas shopping if any stand out. Most notably, I think it may be a decent approach because it helps determine the age of the girl, which can be an issue for guys in their early 20s. Just get her attention and say "excuse me, miss? You look very familiar, do you go to (name a specific college)?". If she says no, hopefully (and likely if she is excited to talk to you) she will follow with "I went to..." or "I go to..." then you can say "oh, what's your major?" and get the conversation going that way. If she does in fact go to the college, the story I'm running with is that I have friends that go to the college and I visit the campus often, which is true anyway and I may have seen her once before (I went to a different school). If she just responds with a "No", I would just assume she doesn't want to be bothered. Also a decent jailbait detector if the girl proclaims she is still in high school. Thoughts? Yeah, this will work. Just be super-friendly like you actually know her, but don't touch her or hug her. The worse case scenario is that she has a boyfriend or she thinks you have bad eyesight. I've had some girls come up to me and as me "did I go to school with you?" because I have a generic face in dim lighting.
veggirl Posted December 8, 2012 Posted December 8, 2012 Don't say "excuse me Miss". That makes it sound like you are her dad or something. Just say "hey there" and then you can ask about the college thing. Don't talk like a grandpa.
dasein Posted December 8, 2012 Posted December 8, 2012 The thing that bugs me about the college question is that it's going to become immediately apparent that it was a specifically crafted insincere question as opposed to just flirty banter. "This guy is just trying to pick me up, he doesn't give a rat about the college thing. Screw him." will be a common mental response IMO.
Nightsky Posted December 8, 2012 Posted December 8, 2012 The thing that bugs me about the college question is that it's going to become immediately apparent that it was a specifically crafted insincere question as opposed to just flirty banter. "This guy is just trying to pick me up, he doesn't give a rat about the college thing. Screw him." will be a common mental response IMO. You know what might be funny in a too funny mostly perverted dark sense of humor sort of way. "Excuse me honey what middle school do you go too?" hahah that would be Grrrrrreat.
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