candyland123 Posted December 8, 2012 Posted December 8, 2012 I found my OM on ashley madison. Seriously is he retarded? I flat out busted him he made some excuse up then hid the profile. Well two weeks later he is back on there WITH THE SAME PROFILE. Can someone explain this to me? I wonder if he is really this stupid? why wouldn't he just change the thing. It really isn't that hard. I am just wondering if anyone else has found this. He swears he loves me, and doesn't want to do this with anyone else, yes I know this is crap. Why lie so openly to me?
veryhappy Posted December 8, 2012 Posted December 8, 2012 Because he doesn't care about the consequences. He doesn't care if he loses you, and you are still in contact with him, so he sees it as a sign that you are not really that upset. He's looking for other pastures, and you might already be dried in his eyes. If a man looks for an A on AM I'd suspect he's a serial cheater, so where the surprise? I have no experience with it, but I can't see "I'm looking for a once in a lifetime, full, committed affair with my soulmate" as what men are looking for. 2
MissBee Posted December 8, 2012 Posted December 8, 2012 I found my OM on ashley madison. Seriously is he retarded? I flat out busted him he made some excuse up then hid the profile. Well two weeks later he is back on there WITH THE SAME PROFILE. Can someone explain this to me? I wonder if he is really this stupid? why wouldn't he just change the thing. It really isn't that hard. I am just wondering if anyone else has found this. He swears he loves me, and doesn't want to do this with anyone else, yes I know this is crap. Why lie so openly to me? He's stupid or thinks you are.... I wouldn't bother to try to figure out why someone is lying openly; the point is, you know he is lying....so that's all the info that matters. 3
Pierre Posted December 8, 2012 Posted December 8, 2012 I found my OM on ashley madison. Seriously is he retarded? I flat out busted him he made some excuse up then hid the profile. Well two weeks later he is back on there WITH THE SAME PROFILE. Can someone explain this to me? I wonder if he is really this stupid? why wouldn't he just change the thing. It really isn't that hard. I am just wondering if anyone else has found this. I don't get this post. He is a cheater-------so why are you surprised? Are you one of those that thinks these guys lie to everybody, but you are an exception? 2
Lamplight Posted December 8, 2012 Posted December 8, 2012 This is his way of saying he's done with you. He the type of guy who sleeps with someone he meets online for a couple of months than on to the next one. Drop him and move on before he gives you herpes. This guy just wants notches in his bedpost. He doesn't love anybody but himself. AM is gross anyway. Full of crazies and seriel rapiest.
whichwayisup Posted December 8, 2012 Posted December 8, 2012 He isn't committed to you and he's going to do as he pleases. If you want him in your life, then accept things as they are - Keep it light and casual, no strings attached. If you don't like it and you're hurting, then end it and find a man who won't use you to feed his ego, find someone who will love and adore only you. 1
Woggle Posted December 8, 2012 Posted December 8, 2012 If there is any site where you should be able to find honest people with integrity it is Ashley Madison. What is this world coming to? 1
Author candyland123 Posted December 8, 2012 Author Posted December 8, 2012 I did go to look for him on there. How I knew, women's intuition. I feel sorry for his wife. I do care a lot for him, and I believe he cares for me and her and maybe someone new now. I guess when I busted him I just wanted him to change the profile so I wouldn't know. Yet he didn't. I find that strange. Does he think I won't check again? I actually think he wants to get caught. umm as i say it here it works out in my head. yes, its his pushing me away. Well that worked. I'm gone.
whichwayisup Posted December 8, 2012 Posted December 8, 2012 I did go to look for him on there. How I knew, women's intuition. I feel sorry for his wife. I do care a lot for him, and I believe he cares for me and her and maybe someone new now. I guess when I busted him I just wanted him to change the profile so I wouldn't know. Yet he didn't. I find that strange. Does he think I won't check again? I actually think he wants to get caught. umm as i say it here it works out in my head. yes, its his pushing me away. Well that worked. I'm gone. Do you not find it strange that you had no problem helping yourself, having an affair with him knowing he's married and now you feel sorry for his wife only after finding out that you're not the only OW? Why are you checking up on him? Anyway, it's good you're gone. This whole affair is a waste of your time, energy and love. Put it to use with someone who is worthy of it. He's married so it's not like you two were ever going to get serious.
MissBee Posted December 8, 2012 Posted December 8, 2012 I did go to look for him on there. How I knew, women's intuition. I feel sorry for his wife. I do care a lot for him, and I believe he cares for me and her and maybe someone new now. I guess when I busted him I just wanted him to change the profile so I wouldn't know. Yet he didn't. I find that strange. Does he think I won't check again? I actually think he wants to get caught. umm as i say it here it works out in my head. yes, its his pushing me away. Well that worked. I'm gone. That's the thing...I don't think he cares whether or not you check again. He is not scared to "get in trouble" with you. He either assumes you won't care or make a big deal about it OR even if you do...he's already on a dating site finding new OW (or he already has hook ups going on), so you're just another fish in the sea and you leaving him won't upset his world.
ThatJustHappened Posted December 8, 2012 Posted December 8, 2012 I found my OM on ashley madison. Seriously is he retarded? I flat out busted him he made some excuse up then hid the profile. Well two weeks later he is back on there WITH THE SAME PROFILE. Can someone explain this to me? I wonder if he is really this stupid? why wouldn't he just change the thing. It really isn't that hard. I am just wondering if anyone else has found this. He swears he loves me, and doesn't want to do this with anyone else, yes I know this is crap. Why lie so openly to me? He wants more vagiety. 1
BetrayedH Posted December 9, 2012 Posted December 9, 2012 He wants more vagiety. Ok, that was a new one for me. And funny. 3
RickFox Posted December 9, 2012 Posted December 9, 2012 Just like the vast majority of us who were the "other" person in a relationship with a married person (or not), you just found out you weren't as special as you thought you were. BTDT bought the t shirt.
Brit Posted December 9, 2012 Posted December 9, 2012 It is not that you are unspecial, but the reality of it, is he is the broken mess. He seeks out continuous no string affairs on AM. Not a worthy guy nor catch. He is a predator, ruthless, and has no depth nor care for others. He most likely hates women.
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