Kyle787 Posted December 8, 2012 Posted December 8, 2012 Hi all, I'm a 20 year old guy. My friend recently had a short run with a girl at his school. She wanted him so badly, had sex, hooked up many times, but he didn't want to commit. I think that all ended. Just the other night she was with a big group of friends who went to a party with us. We started drinking and she started just going nuts on me. Rubbing, dancing, eating my face practically. We separated at around 3am and I messaged her on facebook a few days later. She seemed super receptive with her responses, but she is also either very shy or cautious. I'm having a hard time reading whether or not she would want to go out sometime mainly due to what just happened with my friend and all. We rarely have the opportunity to hang with mutual friends, so would it hurt to just keep trying to continue the conversation? How about asking her about what ever happened between her and my friend? To see what's going on - yay or nay?
dasein Posted December 8, 2012 Posted December 8, 2012 How recent? Would ask your friend first, then ask her out if it's clear they are over and have been over for some time. Then you will have your answer.
Author Kyle787 Posted December 8, 2012 Author Posted December 8, 2012 (edited) How recent? Would ask your friend first, then ask her out if it's clear they are over and have been over for some time. Then you will have your answer. Hooked up a week ago. Talked to her last on Tuesday night. I was messing around about beating her at a game if I were to end up visiting this weekend. Thanks, I could do that. Also would let me just see if they are all on the same page. My friend was with me actually when/after it happened. He seemed pretty disinterested in her, but I never asked him about it directly. I'm also looking for reasons to chat too. Edited December 8, 2012 by Kyle787
dasein Posted December 8, 2012 Posted December 8, 2012 Seems like it's time to ask out. Call to do this, not text, and don't ask out via VM. Ask out for a specific time and date (not hang out sometime) to do something fun and active fairly close to her that isn't a long drawn out thing. Good luck.
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