SteveSc Posted December 8, 2012 Posted December 8, 2012 Hey guys! My girlfriend of two months broke up with me about a year ago, it was a short relationship but the best one I ever had. She broke up with me because her ex boyfriend before me who she remained friends with "changed". These changes involved getting fit, having a direction in life and quitting all the drugs/alcohol. I suppose I wasn't interesting anymore after those changes. We agreed to be friends but never really stayed in contact. In the past few months one of her good friends, who temporarily lives at school across the country, decided to put interest in me. We played online games and sent texts to each other a few days a week. She would share things on my Facebook and there was surely some flirting going on. We were really clicking until she came back home to visit my ex. When she returned to school she stopped talking to me. I figured something was said so I dropped it and moved on. More recently there was a wedding and both myself and my ex were invited. She at first avoided contact with me but I caught her a few times looking. I approached to talk to her to break the ice and I can tell she was extremely nervous, her tone was shaken and she consistently played with a pendant she had around her neck. Her current boyfriend was there and I talked to him as well, he quit his job because it "sucked", he's back doing drugs in appears since he kept talking about doing mushrooms. He also put on all the weight he lost. I do have to also add that my ex changed quite a bit, she put on some weight and took up smoking. Her hair was also a wild mess, it looked stressed. My question is, is my ex over me? I'm told by her best friend that she is and she's totally happy in her current relationship. I didn't get that vibe when she told her friend who lives at school to back off and especially when I saw her current state at the wedding. Or could she just be nervous around me or feels bad for telling her friend to back off. I'm unsure.
NavyAirTraffic Posted December 8, 2012 Posted December 8, 2012 You're talking about a girl who's with someone else right, a guy she left you for? That was a rhetorical question. The answer to your question is, who f'n cares. 2 scenarios end the same way. -She's not over you- She's with someone else. -She's over you- She's with someone else. If the situation above ever changes, only then can you start thinking about it. You should be consumed with only 1 thing, YOU. Her thoughts/actions/looks/feeling don't matter, she's with someone else.
Sav Posted December 8, 2012 Posted December 8, 2012 Omg, so much time has passed. I don't think you would want to settle for someone who thought you were a second option right. Just move on with your life mate, so many more wonderful things are awaiting out there and they will only present themselves to you when you start to truly appreciate the new lease of life your ex has given you
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