livelife Posted December 8, 2012 Posted December 8, 2012 She is here for the weekend and I'm home alone tonight. I'm trying to text as many people as possible, post on here, something to distract me, but now I'm crying. The one thing I didnt want to do. Noone can hang out tonight, Please, can someone please reply to my post? I'm at a very weak point and I need support. My post is something about NC. I forgot the name but it is on the first page.
na49 Posted December 8, 2012 Posted December 8, 2012 Sadly nothing I say (or write) to you is guaranteed to make you feel better. I'll do my best though. You say you want him to miss you.. Well he can't miss you if you don't go away for a while. Let him live life without you. He may not enjoy it as much as he thinks. He may find that his current girl can't give you the things that you gave to him. (this doesn't mean he'll come back). He met her online? He's a cheater, and you shouldn't miss him. (it's perfectly okay that you do though, I miss my ex and she is a cheater who disrespected me a lot, while I was your typical nice guy who got burned for trusting her.) My ex is probably out doing something tonight while I'm home. Does it bother me? Well not really because I don't think about it. NC is obvious, and trust me it will get easier. You really have to stop wanting to check his twitter and stop wanting to check his facebook. You said you've blocked him on facebook which will help your sanity but nothing you do has anything to do with him. It's all about you now. I stress this point because I sometimes want to check up on my ex. She blocked me on facebook, but I made a fake account to stalk her. I deleted it though and I can't do anything about her twitter. She made a new one but of course I found out about it and I can't just forget that it exists. Well I haven't checked either in over a month and it is for the better. Seeing that she is loving life without me will absolutely kill me. Seeing her with the guy she cheated on me with won't help me at all. I've been doing much better not knowing what she's been up to and you will feel better too. 1
denxnis Posted December 8, 2012 Posted December 8, 2012 Seeing that she is loving life without me will absolutely kill me. Seeing her with the guy she cheated on me with won't help me at all. I've been doing much better not knowing what she's been up to and you will feel better too. She may be loving life but I assure you this is temporary. Eventually she will realize what a great boyfriend she had, maybe not today but eventually she will, this I can almost assure you. I would personally take this time to work-out, improve my career, and if you are spiteful throw it in her face when you "accidentally" cross paths in a year or so. The person she cheated on you with is also just a band-aid and is just a temporary solution to a much larger problem she will have to endure and suffer with throughout life.
Author livelife Posted December 8, 2012 Author Posted December 8, 2012 I know I need to quit checking it. And I will try my hardest. I just want the power back. I want him to be the one chasing me, it would be much easier on my part. And I wouldn't take him back. He is being such a jerk. He is friends with one of my sorority sisters who is close to me, he is now completely ignoring her when she sees him in person. She just told me this. Why is he acting so strangly? he has changed completely. However, I am getting angry. I want to drop off all of the written letters he has ever given me, the cards, the cd of songs he made for me, at his house. I don't want them. And I want him to know that. I want him to hurt seeing that I dont want them.
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