Love Bytes Posted December 7, 2012 Share Posted December 7, 2012 Girlfriend of 3 years dumped me Saturday night. Been in a bad place, have had my ups and downs. Yesterday was a really bad day, that ended really well. Went back to what I loved, and have loved long before I knew her. Music. Went and jammed with the band, had a great time, and feel like I have something to look forward to again. I still miss her of course, but in just one day, I've kind of come to terms with it. I feel like my energy is better spent on improving myself and my life rather than wasting it. I realize why she left, and how I need to work on myself to be happy, and to make someone else happy. If it's meant to be, it'll happen with her, and I'm not sure I'll be able to give up that little bit of hope for a long time, but I'll be alright. Today's the first day I haven't cried like a little girl, and I haven't even had to fight any tears away. Glad to be in a good place, and this forum has really helped a lot. I know everybody here preaches NC, but we're still friends on FB, and it doesn't bother me to see her posts, or that she's happy and trying to move on. And ultimately, even if nothing could ever happen, I feel that we could be friends...possibly sooner than I originally imagined. Sorry for the long post, thanks for reading, and most of all, thanks for the support. These forums really helped me through some of the worst days of my life. Link to post Share on other sites
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