Author ThaWholigan Posted December 8, 2012 Author Posted December 8, 2012 Update: We watched the game together. She kissed me again. Then she pulled back again. Says she doesn't have time for anything serious - and casually admitted that I am merely potential to her than the real deal (she mentioned my life situation as a stumbling block) even though she really is attracted and even said she's wanted to f*ck me for a while. She would prefer things to move slowly but she likes my company. I am happy with this - I have some kind of closure so I'm not gonna put my eggs into this basket yet. She's still great fun - had a great time today (and arsenal did win ), and I think she does like me as she's been getting increasingly frisky with me even in public - people have asked if were a couple. BUT - I have a strong feeling that though there is chemistry this is not gonna happen so I will happily remain friends but will continue to date other women.
Author ThaWholigan Posted December 16, 2012 Author Posted December 16, 2012 Was going to make a new thread, but forgot about this one so I'll update here: This is looking like it will be friendship. I've been out with her again, notably yesterday morning/noon - she's attracted to me physically that much is obvious as we've kissed on more than one occasion and she's expressed that as much. The trouble is she wants a more independent man, and I don't currently represent that. It's obviously a source of contention for her where I am concerned, so I'm effectively ready to write this one off. She likes me, but it's not enough to get in a relationship with her . And she doesn't do "ONS or FWB". We'll watch the Arsenal match together tomorrow (it's good to finally have somebody to watch football with to be honest, boy or girl, I'm one of few out of my friends who like it) but it's for the company and the match. Whatever happens, happens.
dreamingoftigers Posted December 16, 2012 Posted December 16, 2012 LOL, She's practically inviting you to push for it, but if you don't, she will.... I "friendzoned" my husband in the first week of meeting him. Uh, I let him win that argument. 7&8th anniversaries this May.
Author ThaWholigan Posted December 16, 2012 Author Posted December 16, 2012 LOL, She's practically inviting you to push for it, but if you don't, she will.... I "friendzoned" my husband in the first week of meeting him. Uh, I let him win that argument. 7&8th anniversaries this May. Possibly.....we'll see tomorrow if that's the case
Author ThaWholigan Posted December 17, 2012 Author Posted December 17, 2012 Meh. Postponed till Saturday
Author ThaWholigan Posted December 22, 2012 Author Posted December 22, 2012 Yeah.......its not gonna happen . Basically she got a better match - which means "he has a job and lives on his own". She was at least upfront but cool about it. No worries - only way is up .
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