oman Posted December 7, 2012 Share Posted December 7, 2012 i went travelling around america for 9 weeks. Met a girl, 2 weeks in. Spent an awful lot of time together for the next 7 weeks (sharing a tent, days out etc etc). I came home after that, she carried on travelling for a further 9 weeks. About a week or so before i left to come home - she wanted "that" conversation of either we try and stay together for her remaining travelling or just call it quits (we decided to try it) Shes in contact roughly every other day (depending on wifi - we mainly imessage / maybe facetime once in a while/ the odd photo ). I havent been pestering her with messages, i want her to have a good time while being away & like i said she is the one that will normally be in contact. shes in NZ now for 3 weeks till she comes home (in 2 weeks she'll be home). Pretty much moving to a new town every day & partying with her new bus mates. I haven't really heard much in detail from her since being her bus journey. Just the odd quick "hello" text every other day (Also the convo has kinda waned abit now & i would like to try and get it back to more jokey/flirty). I must admit the first 2 weeks i found quit hard (seeing her everyday, too just a text convo. Obviously, ive only known her for like 3-4 months and atleast half of that has been her travelling alone. She has been on my mind pretty much most of the time im not doing something (ive been unemployed since coming back but start a job in a few weeks time). Basically ive had so many situations go round in my head, like - Her getting with others, finding someone else, just leaving me hanging here for when shes back etc etc should i meet her at the airport or leave it? you think maybe i should ask if anything went on while we were apart? OR am i just over thinking everything?? just wondered if anyone had some advise or was in the same situation. Link to post Share on other sites
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