Aslanbek Posted December 9, 2012 Posted December 9, 2012 When I was 20 years old (and quite a head-turner), I married a man who was 6'6" and 310 pounds. I have since dated a number of fat men. My current BF has a paunch. Yes, fat men get women. Just go to a mall and people-watch; you will see people of all sizes and shapes together, even fat people. CarrieT......you are still a head-turner......
somedude81 Posted December 9, 2012 Posted December 9, 2012 I'm 5'7 and over 200pounds. The women I have gotten were skinny and really hot. I am not tall and I get women. Height has nothing to do with it, its attitude and the amount of time you spend outside meeting people. I hate meeting people so I don't do well with the opposite sex. Da fu*k how they hell do you get women?!!?!?!?!?~! No offense, but I shoujld be 1000000000% more attractive than you and I don't get sh*t from women. I really do think that god hates me.
ThaWholigan Posted December 9, 2012 Posted December 9, 2012 Da fu*k how they hell do you get women?!!?!?!?!?~! No offense, but I shoujld be 1000000000% more attractive than you and I don't get sh*t from women. I really do think that god hates me. He likes you more than you probably like yourself tp be fair. 2
somedude81 Posted December 9, 2012 Posted December 9, 2012 He likes you more than you probably like yourself tp be fair. dreamerisland has a crush on me?
xxoo Posted December 9, 2012 Posted December 9, 2012 I met a cute, hot girl who went out with a morbidly obese guy. He was in a cool profession which certainly added to his appeal, but the thing she said to me was that he was the only guy who ever brought her to orgasm. I don't know what his trick was?!!! But, anyhow, she ended up marrying him.! I've always said, if you can drive a woman truly wild in bed (largely mental), she will be yours. Maybe not every woman works that way--but enough of us do!
ThaWholigan Posted December 9, 2012 Posted December 9, 2012 dreamerisland has a crush on me? I was referring to the almighty lol 1
xxoo Posted December 9, 2012 Posted December 9, 2012 Da fu*k how they hell do you get women?!!?!?!?!?~! No offense, but I shoujld be 1000000000% more attractive than you and I don't get sh*t from women. I really do think that god hates me. Your physical appearance is good enough. Less attractive guys attract plenty of women. Figure out why that is (hint: it isn't because god hates you), and you can do it, too. As much as you fight it, it really is more about behavior than it is about your appearance.
IT Geek Posted December 10, 2012 Posted December 10, 2012 So how did you think Kim Dotcom got his (very good-looking) wife? And all the other obese men who have wives of their own (though perhaps not as good-looking, but perhaps those men don't care, which could be a redeeming quality of theirs)? He's rich and she was interested in the money at first? Yea, it happens.
IT Geek Posted December 10, 2012 Posted December 10, 2012 I've always said, if you can drive a woman truly wild in bed (largely mental), she will be yours. Maybe not every woman works that way--but enough of us do! But you have to get them there first....
IT Geek Posted December 10, 2012 Posted December 10, 2012 Two examples from last night... Went to a "Sexy Santa" meetup.com event with a couple of buddies. One of them comes back to the table with three women. So, all three of the women fixate on my two friends. I'd try to say something or start up conversation and it was like "yea, whatever...I'm talking to your buddies". Later in the night I see this woman sitting at the bar alone and has been for about 30 minutes, other than some other women coming up an talking to her. She's all moving around and **** like she wants to dance. So, I figure WTF and go ask her. Shot down. Then before the end of the song, I see her out on the dance floor with another guy for a few dances. Then he goes back to his buddies and she's back at the bar alone. Not exactly a good night for my self-confidence.
SmileFace Posted December 10, 2012 Posted December 10, 2012 Da fu*k how they hell do you get women?!!?!?!?!?~! No offense, but I shoujld be 1000000000% more attractive than you and I don't get sh*t from women. I really do think that god hates me. Because you are under some horrible notion that the only thing that matters when finding a partner is your BMI. Not saying it doesn't help but it isn't the only thing that matters.
IT Geek Posted December 10, 2012 Posted December 10, 2012 Because you are under some horrible notion that the only thing that matters when finding a partner is your BMI. Not saying it doesn't help but it isn't the only thing that matters. It may not be the only thing, but physical attraction is at very high percentage of what does matter during the initial "sizing up" phase. I mean, what else do you have to go on? Nothing.
Locust Posted December 10, 2012 Posted December 10, 2012 I see fat men get slim women and I'm slim and I don't get girls go figure.
SmileFace Posted December 10, 2012 Posted December 10, 2012 It may not be the only thing, but physical attraction is at very high percentage of what does matter during the initial "sizing up" phase. I mean, what else do you have to go on? Nothing. Physical attraction isn't only exclusive to somone's weight. You can be average size and have an ugly face. Being fat may make someones face more distorted in a way that may make them less attractive - however that isn't always the case. I think you meant to say what else do you have going on. I don't know - how about you tell me.
somedude81 Posted December 10, 2012 Posted December 10, 2012 Your physical appearance is good enough. Less attractive guys attract plenty of women. Figure out why that is (hint: it isn't because god hates you), and you can do it, too. As much as you fight it, it really is more about behavior than it is about your appearance. My behavior is the way it is because of things out of my control. Depression, lack of confidence, inexperience etc. Why do I have those things? Because God hates me.
Els Posted December 10, 2012 Posted December 10, 2012 He's rich and she was interested in the money at first? Yea, it happens. Great, so we have established that fat men do get women. Next? 1
gaius Posted December 10, 2012 Posted December 10, 2012 I sat next to an obese guy and his thin, blonde girlfriend last time I was on a plane. He was in coach with me and had on a generic T-Shirt from walmart so he was no Mr. Moneybags. It happens if you really want it to happen.
runningfar Posted December 10, 2012 Posted December 10, 2012 I hace known some... one guy, 6'4 and 360 and a bunch of girls ready to do anything for him. He was extremely intelligent and funny and confident. He told me he thought confidence was the issue; that since he grew up with a good body and thought of himself that way, he faced less discrimination than skinnier guys with poor self image. He did lose weight down to 280 while I was training him but decided to stop. (He did have a bigger muscular frame despite obesity carried it relatively well; not sure he could have ever got below 220. )
IT Geek Posted December 10, 2012 Posted December 10, 2012 Physical attraction isn't only exclusive to somone's weight. You can be average size and have an ugly face. Being fat may make someones face more distorted in a way that may make them less attractive - however that isn't always the case. I think you meant to say what else do you have going on. I don't know - how about you tell me. Being overweight gets a guy pretty much an automatic "not eligible" when a woman sizes up someone.
SmileFace Posted December 10, 2012 Posted December 10, 2012 Being overweight gets a guy pretty much an automatic "not eligible" when a woman sizes up someone. This isn't true Weren't you married? Not eligible to what --- Borrow her jacket?
IT Geek Posted December 10, 2012 Posted December 10, 2012 This isn't true Weren't you married? Not eligible to what --- Borrow her jacket? I gained the weight during my marriage...and then she left me for someone at her work. Probably a coincidence but still... Eligible as a potential mate. 1
SmileFace Posted December 10, 2012 Posted December 10, 2012 I gained the weight during my marriage...and then she left me for someone at her work. Probably a coincidence but still... Eligible as a potential mate. Don't you know fat guys with mates?
IT Geek Posted December 10, 2012 Posted December 10, 2012 Don't you know fat guys with mates? yep, but they got them before they gained weight...like me. I mean, be realistic. Why would a woman be interested in a big guy if she had the option of a normal sized guy, all other things being equal? It ain't happening. 1
Author Necromancer Posted December 10, 2012 Author Posted December 10, 2012 I have a hard time getting attracted to any man under two hundred pounds.... 200 p of muscles or fat?.
maybealone Posted December 11, 2012 Posted December 11, 2012 We don't see big beautiful men commercials. What's up with that?. They're all in sitcoms. Generally with hot leading ladies. I mean, be realistic. Why would a woman be interested in a big guy if she had the option of a normal sized guy, all other things being equal? It ain't happening. Because he's amazing and makes her laugh and treats her the way she's always dreamed of being treated? Granted, I might not be interested enough in a really obese guy to get to know him that well, but 30 to 50 extra pounds doesn't bother me a bit.
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