Necromancer Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 I think most fat women don't want fat men. We have all seen this BBW stuff (a woman with meat can be hot) but fat women are big no and many of the bbw are. We don't see big beautiful men commercials. What's up with that?. 3
Els Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 Because only gay men are interested in beautiful men? 1
IT Geek Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 As a formerly BIIG guy (still overweight but continuing to lose) I can say with absolute certainty that they DO NOT. 2
Mme. Chaucer Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 We have all seen this BBW stuff (a woman with meat can be hot) but fat women are big no and many of the bbw are. Can you translate this sentence? Oh, never mind …
Author Necromancer Posted December 7, 2012 Author Posted December 7, 2012 As a formerly BIIG guy (still overweight but continuing to lose) I can say with absolute certainty that they DO NOT. I have one over weight friend, good guy but he does not get women as far as i know.
Author Necromancer Posted December 7, 2012 Author Posted December 7, 2012 Because only gay men are interested in beautiful men? So fat women are acceptable, called BBW. While fat men are not.
Author Necromancer Posted December 7, 2012 Author Posted December 7, 2012 We don't see that cause its been the norm for the fat woman to get the skinny chick. Even if he doesn't deserve her, that said everyone should take care of their bodies. I am in the process of getting rid of most of my fat through dieting and exercise. I never see fat guys with skinny women, but I know average guys with over weight women. 1
edgygirl Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 I am 5'4 and 120 now. I am really attracted to big guys. when I was 5'4 and 215 I was also super attracted to big guys. I hope most girls don't realize what they're missing (because mainly of societal norms) so I have more chances to find me a big guy myself! 1
goldengirl11 Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 Yes. I think it's more a question the other way round!!
carhill Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 One example, recently in the public eye during Hurricane Sandy. Myself, though not obese, but generally overweight most of my life, I've done OK. Had I been more interested in casual sex, I might have done 'better', but I don't lack for social attention and interaction with ladies, have dated plenty, had girlfriends and been married. I don't think being a heavy man is a sentence of solitude and death, but one can certainly make that choice if they want.
DC4 Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 How fat are we talking? My ex was pretty overweight and it wasn't a factor at all. I wouldn't call myself skinny but I'm certainly not heavy (5'7", size 8).
KathyM Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 I know a guy who was 300 lbs., and he was in an exclusive relationship with a woman for many years. She was also overweight, but they were very happy together. In the U.S., 2/3 of the population are overweight. It has become the norm, and I see plenty of fat guys with partners, as well as fat women with partners.
carhill Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 As a comparison, I'm currently 5'10" (lost an inch to age) and 225 pounds and was between 210 and 230 during our M. My exW is 5'1" and varied between 170 and 190 during our M. Other than when doing grueling endurance training where I dropped to 185 or so, I've been this weight since I was 14 years old. Variously, other girlfriends were all 'skinny' by comparison, from 4'11" and 95lbs to 5' 7" and 120 lbs. I could easily pick up any of them, and did . My exW, not so much. Didn't matter. I loved her. OP, what are your parameters?
mesmerized Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 Some do some don't. A fat young man will have a hard time because there are so many fit or thin or average men to choose from. I rarely meet bigger men. But after 40 its easier cause a lot of men get bigger and out of shape with age so there is less competition.
ThaWholigan Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 Big guys do alright, I got a friend who's quite big and been in a relationship with a really good looking girl. Granted, he's not the norm, but fat guys don't get completely ignored.
FitChick Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 after 40 its easier cause a lot of men get bigger and out of shape with age so there is less competition. Same goes for women. It doesn't bother me that other women are overweight. I say they should eat more! A lot of couples may have started out with one or both being slim but over time they have piled on the pounds. 1
KungFuJoe Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 Fat guys actually do ok. A lot of women like BIG guys. They prefer muscular but for a lot of them, fat is better than stick thin on guys. 4
truth_seeker Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 To answer your question: Yes. It's called being rich.
edgygirl Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 Give me a stocky husky guy over a muscular guy any day... Don't care about the bank account as much. Money is great. But if he's rich and too thin, I won't be that interested. Stop making generalizations about women, come on.
KungFuJoe Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 The majority of Americans are overweight. If op was correct (and he never is) Americans would die out from lack of breeding. 3
Feelin Frisky Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 There is no such thing as "fat men", fat women" or "fat people"--those are un-PC terms that imply an obese person is limited to the range of limits of a group, like racism or sexism does. There are obese persons and each one is as unique as any non-obese person. Therefore it is ludicrous to conclude a definitive answer about a "they" or a "them". I have had period of obesity and periods of hunky handsomeness. I can tell you that I have gotten together with women who knew me as heavy then thinner and they told me they thought I was cute the whole time I thought I was horrible to look at. So the moral of the story is if you are fat, it is not the kiss of death unless you make it so. Of course if you are slovenly, stinky, ugly and have a crap personality and are also fat, you'll probably just be dismissed as fat.
serial muse Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 I think most fat women don't want fat men. We have all seen this BBW stuff (a woman with meat can be hot) but fat women are big no and many of the bbw are. We don't see big beautiful men commercials. What's up with that?. Huh. Well, I would venture that BBW is considered a sexual fetish, and at the moment much of the discussion of fetishes tends to focus on men's. Doesn't mean women don't have them, obviously; I think they're just not as defined and discussed at this point in time. But I don't think that that translates to women not being interested in fat men ever; it's just not widely looked upon as a fetish in the way that "BBW" is. But since you bring up commercials [?], I assume you're interested in representations of the likelihood of such "relationships" in media, and I have to say, if you think it's all fat women-skinny men out there then I don't know what rock you've been living under. Perhaps this primer will help. Fat man-fat woman relationships just aren't generally depicted, period. Doesn't seem gender-specific to me, though. Why would you see it only through that lens? 1
nessaaa Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 Yea and why arent men in any of the anti aging commericals. Not nice 1
grkBoy Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 Seen rich fat guys get hot gold diggers. Seen regular-income fat guys get fat women. Now as for regular-income or unemployed fat guys get hot women? I've honestly never saw it happen. 1
Nightsky Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 I've seen fat losers get hot women before. Obviously being in shape will be more attractive.
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