Should I make out with her?

[ocsav]

Need some help here: I met this girl 5 months ago (not that long ago) and we have had a great time. She is 23 and I'm 33. We used to spend all the nights together but then she started getting busy and stressed with her studies and we started drifting some nights apart. However, I just left my job, was lost and needed her attention. This caused a clash but without any major fight.

 

We spent a great time together on Friday to Saturday where she tells me that we have a glorious relationship (it's her words) and "I love you so much" but she wants to get rid of the stress and therefore breaks up. But during this we made out all night, she told me she was confused, she said she wants to be with me and then break up (back and forth) and doesn't want to lose me. Even while she was going away (after she cried) she was trying to kiss me even when I was avoiding it.

 

Monday, she sent me a text saying "Hey, how are you? Kiss". I replied in the same way without kiss and got a: "have felt better" and asking to meet up in the weekend for giving me my clothes (I asked to get them right when we broke up).

 

I'll reply later on today in a dry manner but with consideration. But I strongly feel that she will try to make out with me again tomorrow. What should I do and what should I think of all this situation?

[Balzac]

Are you 33 but not had long relationships?

[ocsav]

well, I have had long relationships. 4 where I actually lived with them. I broke up with girls and had girls telling me the same, but I simply can't read this one. In all the times that happened it was a clean cut from the same day, not making out and saying the things she said. In my opinion the break up is a mix of stress and a bit of having me in her hand. There's still lots of love, passion, and respect and I can't seem to see this one as a clean cut.

[GuyInLimbo]

Wrong forum, bro. This is for marriage/divorce-related stuff. There's a break-up forums one level above here.