Zezhit Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 (edited) So I met this girl a year ago..we hit it off immediately.She was the brightest and most beautiful girl I ever met in my life,and she still is.Shes a girl every guy would want.We met through family friends,and she lives in Malaysia while i live in Singapore,so we don't see each other often.We both love each other very much,the honeymoon phase is already past us.Well,we just got back from a trip to korea with our families,but things haven't been going smoothly for us.She has a bad stepmother..she has been spreading bad things about her to my parents that I know are not true.But here's the thing,our families don't know we are together,and whatever her stepmother has been telling my parents are all lies.My parents are good friends with her and actually believes whatever she says.My parents used to like her alot,but now they have the wrong impression of her.Her stepmother deemed her as a gold digger and all those hurtful titles you would never want to be called.She still acts as if she really loves her.Her biological mother really likes me,and she knows we are in love.She supports what we do.I know she's a good girl.We've been through thick and thin to get here.But I'm afraid this will affect us when we finally decide to reveal our love to them.I really need all of your advice..I know this problem can be solved.We are both determined to solve this problem.Stupid society just believes whatever they hear nowadays. Edited December 7, 2012 by Zezhit
justwhoiam Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 The only way to get your gf good reputation back is by discrediting her stepmother. No need to hurt this woman, you just pick something she said, like some gossiping for instance, and you tell your parents you heard she said this and that and "hand" them the proof she lied or that what she said was groundless. And you go from there explaining to them that she's a serial liar.
Author Zezhit Posted December 8, 2012 Author Posted December 8, 2012 But my parents are good friends with her? How do I do this without blowing our cover?
justwhoiam Posted December 8, 2012 Posted December 8, 2012 But my parents are good friends with her? So what? What's the problem? Are you afraid that the friendship would break because of that? I guess your parents would only start to take a distance from what she says. That's all. It's like when you have a friend and you know he always overstates or blows up things... You know that and don't pay too much attention... How do I do this without blowing our cover? Again, I don't think the friendship would be ruined because of that. Maybe they would go out with her less often... but at that point you can clearly talk to your parents: "You know what? I really like that girl... And she likes me... We would like to date a bit" something like that.
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