dsmith95 Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 The title should say, Long distance, age gap, online relationship, HELP me! Me (a 17 year old guy who lives in derbyshire, england) met a 13 year old girl from the USA on omegle. This already sounds weird, doesn't it? In case you don't know, Omegle is a web site where you get matched up to IM a random person. Since we met we have kept talking on KIK, Facebook and we've even been chatting (only voice) on Skype. After a few weeks of talking everyday we told each other that we loved each other and we really mean it, I can promise you. More recently than this we mutually decided that we are girlfriend and boyfriend. We make each other so happy and feel better about ourselves. We both think that one day we can be together in reality. She says that she always wanted to move to England because she hates where she lives (Indiana in the US). We have talked about her coming over here someday and she will be able to as part of some weird exchange program that means she can stay with someone she knows over here for part of the summer holidays when she's 15 (I'll be 19). we've said that we'll do this so that we can see if we really like each other before she decides (when we're older) to live together. we really really do love each other and want to be together. she is more mature than I am despite the age difference the other way. Do people think this could possibly work? Is it just wrong? any help/tips would be appreciated.
justwhoiam Posted December 8, 2012 Posted December 8, 2012 Do people think this could possibly work? Me? No. A 0.01% chance for it to work. Is it just wrong? Not wrong. Live the moment. You're both under age. When she'll still be a minor and you won't, things will get more complicated. Sex would be illegal for the both of you until she's 18, because you're 4 years older. You'd risk a lot and it's not worth it. It might ruin your life. So be very cautious. You'd need a lot of self-control. But well, this event is - if ever - in two years, and who knows what will happen in those 2 years. She might become just a far memory. Don't get too attached to her now, because you never really met her. You cannot even know if you'd really like her in person. And she's only 13.
Carenth Posted December 8, 2012 Posted December 8, 2012 I would be extremely careful with this when you turn 18 anything you do with her could land you in some serious trouble. If I was you I would look for someone your own age but that is just me.
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