livelife Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 Here is my other post about what is going on: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/360307-how-can-these-feelings-possibly-real It's really hard though. I have a tough time avoiding his twitter. I blocked him on facebook but Twitter is much more difficult. I can block him on twitter but I can still look up his account and see what he is posting. I just want him to miss me. This is awful.
ReadMyThread Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 Here is my other post about what is going on: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/360307-how-can-these-feelings-possibly-real It's really hard though. I have a tough time avoiding his twitter. I blocked him on facebook but Twitter is much more difficult. I can block him on twitter but I can still look up his account and see what he is posting. I just want him to miss me. This is awful. Well, your new life has just started! We will be here for you whenever you need us. It will be tough but you will get through it! Takes patience and time which will be a bitch lol. You should stay away from twitter if you can still look his up. Your temptation will build to check it or it may diminish I would hope but either way you should stay away from all media sites after a break up. Even if you have blocked him on Facebook. I remember I block my ex and my temptation builded so strong I wanted to see what she was posting so I unblocked her and checked lol. It was a weak moment of mine but I solved this issue. Good luck! Remember you are Better than him and don't let him win! He wants you to be sad and miserable. Don't let it happen!
Author livelife Posted December 7, 2012 Author Posted December 7, 2012 Exactly he is posting online because he knows it will bother me, but I'll show him that as far as he knows i'm over it and happy again! How did you resist the temptation/eventually get over looking at it? He just met this girl that lives in Alabama last week. Exactly a week ago. And they are already posting lovey dovey things all over twitter. They just met. They live in different states. I'm so weirded out.
ReadMyThread Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 Exactly he is posting online because he knows it will bother me, but I'll show him that as far as he knows i'm over it and happy again! How did you resist the temptation/eventually get over looking at it? He just met this girl that lives in Alabama last week. Exactly a week ago. And they are already posting lovey dovey things all over twitter. They just met. They live in different states. I'm so weirded out. See. That's a start! Forget showing him! Show YOU that YOU can be happy again. Oooo see you seeing that on Twitter wil do only 2 things. It will hurt you seeing he is talking to someone else and it will build up your temptation to KEEP checking it to see how serious they get and what will they post next on each others Twitter or where they were this day and what they did this day lol. You should delete your Twitter so you cant see it. How did I resist looking at my ex's page!!!? Lol! That's a funny story. Well you see I didn't lol. I would look at her page and the guy she left me for's page and hurt myself on purpose. But then I realized I couldn't keep doing that so I blocked her and I blocked the guy she left me for too. Two weeks after that my temptation got so strong because I haven't check it in so long so guess what stupid thing I did!? Lol. I unblocked her and I unblocked him just to see if they were still talking. They were. It hurt. Lol. Then that's when I had enough!!! I told my sister to change my Facebook password to HER Facebook password and then I de activated my Facebook lol. So now I can't even go on Facebook of I wanted to because I don't know my password (sisters password). Lol. But guess what happened today!? Temptation was strong again so guess what I did!? Well today I seen my fried was on Facebook on his phone and I said "hey let me see that really quick" and I took it from him and gues where that led? Lol. I checked the guy she left me for's page and seen they are STILL talking/together. She liked a post he posted yesterday. It's an addiction to me but I'm proud to say its diminishing before me. I mean today when I checked his page I ONLY checked his page and not my ex's. I'm not happy about it but I'm getting control of it I guess. So I guess I still haven't got over the temptation of checking Facebook because I do whenever I see someone on their phone on it lol. No more though. I'll just tell them to put it away because it only hurts me.
Author livelife Posted December 7, 2012 Author Posted December 7, 2012 Exactly, it's an addiction to me. I wonder if it's actually real though. She is nowhere on his facebook page, just on twitter. but thats the magic of twitter No matter if I block him/delete twitter, I can still look up their page. It's an addiction I can't stop but I want to. As bad as it is I know I will be better off when I have him crying to me and I can ignore him. Then I will have the power. I just want to get that power!!
Halo84 Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 I'm feeling exactly the same, i guess you just have to believe in the fact that he will eventually miss you and even if he doesn't you'll be stronger by then...the best thing we can do is to ignore them get on with our own lives show them we don't need them, staying in contact only hurts us and feeds their ego!!! I'm only on day 2 but i i'm not as upset as when i was in contact!
Author livelife Posted December 7, 2012 Author Posted December 7, 2012 It's day 2. My friend is bugging me telling me to ask him about getting the tickets back, but I keep saying no I don't want to talk to him. She comes in town today so I know I need to stay offline as much as possible. I just hope I stay strong.
Author livelife Posted December 7, 2012 Author Posted December 7, 2012 And I meant she as in the girl from online that he just met last week..
Author livelife Posted December 8, 2012 Author Posted December 8, 2012 Sorry to be annoying but much support is going to be needed tonight and this weekend. The girl is in town visiting him for the weekend.
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