Broke NC a few hours ago

[domple]

Bah I broke NC a few hours ago (as explaed in the email). My question is, is she leaving the door open or just my imagination

First me then her:

Hi K,

 

You probably thought that you would never hear from me again but something unusual has come up.

 

A week or 2 ago I started to get emails that appeared to be coming from you saying things like Hi or Dimi or something along those lines, BUT they are actually from a spam-bot and the email address keeps changing with your name on it. I'll send a snapshot to show you what I'm talking about. I could be wrong but you may need to change your password to prevent this from happening to others as well if this is the case.

 

Anyway sorry as you probably don’t want to hear from me. Hope all is well.

 

Dim

 

Her response:

Hi Dim,

 

It's all good. I don't hate you! The only reason we have nothing to do with each other is cause I knew it would hurt you too much.

 

Thanks so much for letting me know! I shall change my password.

 

Things are well. I hope life is treating you well.

 

K

[big bear]

You are convincing yourself the door is open. Been there done that.

 

Unless you are ready to risk going back to step 1, don't initiate further contact.

[jags2bowl27]

that door does not look open to me

[Gottabestrong]

Sounds to me like she is just being polite and thanking you for the information about her hacked account. No open door there.

[Tiera D]

its not really much hope..i see 0 hope in her mail

 

TD

[Kisliean]

I don't see an open door. She was being very cordial and formal.

[Survivor12]

Sorry, I agree with the others. You were the one who opened the door, but she didn't invite you in. If she had, she would have given you something to respond to, but there isn't t a single "?" in her entire text. Why she did give you, however, is the knowledge that she doesn't hate you so you can move on without regret. It may not be what you were hoping for but it's a good thing.