MyPoutine Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 With all the "nobody likes me because I am X" threads about I am starting to wonder, what attracts you? Physically what are the things that tend to catch your eye or that you look out for the most? What about personality wise, what would you say are important factors you consider here? Finally what are your deal breakers? Let's see just how universal tastes in men and women are.
xdahliax Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 These are just preferences, I've been attracted to men who didn't have some of these characteristics... Physically: Tall, muscular/average/husky but not stick thin, dark hair, nice smile, sense of style Personality: funny, free-spirited, intelligent, pragmatic, kind, loves poutine as much as I do Deal-breakers: laziness, vulgarity, vileness, poor hygiene
pbjbear Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 With all the "nobody likes me because I am X" threads about I am starting to wonder, what attracts you? Physically what are the things that tend to catch your eye or that you look out for the most? What about personality wise, what would you say are important factors you consider here? Finally what are your deal breakers? Let's see just how universal tastes in men and women are. Physically: Nice eyes or smile I am attracted to thin, average or athletic body types I dont have a preference for eye/hair color I dont have a preference for race, but Ive been exposed to alot of races growing up so I may be different than everyone else Personality wise I like: -Someone who lives a somewhat healthy lifestyle. It would be hard for me to live with someone who is really unhealthy -Sense of humor. Dont need to be funny but need to laugh at things because Im goofy -Can provide mental stimulation. I dont mean geeky/brainy. I do like some men with geeky interests but I just mean you use your brain some of the time. Ive known people with just HS diplomas that were fun to converse with and you could talk about any subject with them -Someone who is at least a little bit extroverted...dont need someone super outgoing but not a hermit either Dealbreakers:self obsessed, narrow minded (sexist, racist, not open about anything) disrespectful, mean/degrading, very flirtacious, no self control, unable to hold down a job Everyone is a little selfish and everyone has some moments where that have no self control of course, I need someone to be able to have fun. But guys with no self control are bad news and are unable to have a healthy mature relationship
MrCastle Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 These are preferences and can change depending on the attraction I feel for the girl Physically: Brunette, a knockout face, pear shaped body Personality: Smart, independent, open minded, lives in the moment, creative, funny, sexual, honest, loyal, drama free. Deal Breakers: Drug use, laziness, no life goals, pettiness, game playing, immaturity.
ThaWholigan Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 Physically I like dark or tanned, slightly thick (or not skinny), it helps if the hair is curly but not required. I also like dark eyes, fiery or passionate looking eyes, and thick, soft lips. Mentally - well this is a grey area for me. I like it when girls are fiery admittedly, especially if they are highly sexual with it aswell. Tactile, emotionally independent, driven yet laidback at the same time. Everything else is negotiable to be honest. And lastly - dealbreakers. No ambition, adulterous, high levels of ignorance, too clingy and not very sexual. Also moany women. There's a difference between being feisty and being moany.
veggirl Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 physical: brown hair, brown eyes, baseball player/swimmer type of body personality: smart, witty, funny, sarcastic, can keep up with me. honestly, so many people are so freakin dumb. I can't even take it. when I make a joke, you must understand it, whether you think it's funny or not! loyal and all those typical things as well, those are givens on anyones list. but being smart and witty is a must. dealbreakers: dumb, too feminine, people-pleaser 1
Toddbt12y1 Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 (edited) I like mixed girls overall. But any can do. Around 5'5, max height: 5'8. Hair: Brown, Red. Prefer shoulder length + long hair is just sexy, a woman's sweet feature! Eyes: Hazel, Blue, Green. Breast Size: 36B+(love this size for it's firmness) Nice thighs. Smooth voice, a girlie type voice. Nice lips. Nice Butt I prefer girlie girl type attitudes; with a hint of sillyness. I am mainly attracted to the eyes off-bat. The eyes can be soo seductive, so sexy, and telling of a woman and her passion. Complimented with nice seductive eyebrows, these shiney orbs is such a turnon, and such a sweet thing to look at. (Anything else, I do not really take into consideration, though she certainly should have a job -- though I can be understandable to a degree.) I am not attracted too; Cheaters, users, gossipers(I am talking crazy obssessive about it.) Gold-diggers; or women who cannot carry themselves like a Lady. Edited December 7, 2012 by Toddbt12y1
todreaminblue Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 With all the "nobody likes me because I am X" threads about I am starting to wonder, what attracts you? Physically what are the things that tend to catch your eye or that you look out for the most? What about personality wise, what would you say are important factors you consider here? Finally what are your deal breakers? Let's see just how universal tastes in men and women are. Physically.....dark hair( nearly every guy i have been with has had dark hair dont know if this is what i am attracted to) dont care really how tall, prefer if just as tall would date shorter......i like around the height.......mostly stocky build i like brown eyes but it doesnt have to be i like the smiles to be in the eyes as well thats attractive.... soft calm voices attract me more than anything, to me it shows strength of character not into loud or obnoxious.....i can pick inflections in voices .....i know when soemone who i am attracted to as soon as i hear their voice without seeing them......i pick voices instantly on the phone and hwo they are feeling.....accept for one now......who has me intrigued i can read his voice at all....voices rock my boat.....and i have used my voice to rock boats..i have excellent phone manner....obviously not the one i like at the moment.....sigh personality wise not loud or obnoxious,intelligence calm, open, a guy who who doesnt always just agree with me.... stands true to what he says and believes no matter what i say..... doesnt argue for the sake of arguing though... a guy who loves to explore have adventures but doesnt mind spending a weeknd at home now and again....so i guess balanced... someone who likes to laugh because i would try really hard to provide that i love to hear a guy laugh and who likes to smile....its hot.... personality wise they have to like my personality... ...someone accepting of mental illness....so accepting of differences....i need to eb with someone affectionate, and loving...who doesnt mind holding hands in public its nice to show public affection so a guy who feels what i feel....i prefer a guy who would express his thoughts and feelings openly once he actually got to know i am not the type of person to take that forgranted...bad or good i would rather know.....i go insane other wise deal breakers arrogance ridicule not light teasing or even sarcasm but ridicule humiliation in public violence verbal or physical aggression towards me or others spitting and hocking phlegm in front of me non affection making fun of people who carry weight calling me by an exes name asking me for sex in the first month harassing me for sex expecting sex after disclosing history not being able to handle or accept mental illness or a history of sexual abuse with this some guys wont admit it....but it does become obvious unconsciously its a deal breaker....i dotn want to mess with anyone....dont want anyone to mess with me not liking kids a guy who tries to change my beliefs in regards to religion not accepting my kids not willing to trust not being honest consistently someone who never tells you what is wrong but expects you to know name calling
GirlontheLam Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 (edited) Physical: Shaved head dimples great calves great smile broad shoulders olive complexion or darker personal style/well dressed Personality outgoing sarcastic artistic (music, art, writing, building stuff, inventor) great conversationalist directness chivalry some arrogance (I know, I know...it is so cliche. But I find that if someone is a little arrogant or cocky, we get along great!) Deal Breakers Clingy personality, low energy/no enthusiasm, saggy pants when you are my age, no vocab outside of curse words, poor hygiene, no ambition Edited December 7, 2012 by GirlontheLam
ThaWholigan Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 Is it weird that I can't compile a list? Its not weird. I found it difficult to do mine - always do. I find so many things attractive in women its hard to narrow down. 1
tigressA Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 Personality: Funny (witty/clever/sarcastic--not juvenile potty/frat boy humor) Intelligent Considerate Gracious Perceptive Emotionally open Romantic Affectionate Liberal Opinionated Curious Physical: Close to my height (5'7"--I prefer guys less than 6', down to 5'5") Full, thick head of hair, preferably wavy/curly Not even slightly overweight--I will go for a super-skinny guy before I go for a chubby one Good dress sense Nice teeth Lips narrower than mine--I have rather full lips Gorgeous eyes--green are my favorite, brown/black run a close second Large nose--I love a classic Roman/Greek nose. It's so noble-looking Dealbreakers: Aside from the obvious (disrespectful/abusive/drugs, etc), a 'whatever' personality--going along with what everyone else wants, never having an opinion of their own Obnoxious Narcissistic Is friends with/regularly hangs out with a lot of his exes
Eternal Sunshine Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 (edited) Physical: Dark longish hair, olive skin, ideally light eyes but not important, at least my height (5'8"), not feminine in any way, this one is a must: his body must feel "hard". Doesn't have to be very muscular but I a turned off by flab. Nice arms, V shape a bonus. Body is more important than face, good teeth. Personality: sarcastic, witty, very intelligent, ambitious, independent, introvert, has a dark side, has substance and emotional depth, articulate, artistic, eccentric, edgy, kind, affectionate, has integrity, loyal, picky (not just after a relationship with anyone), close knit family. Deal breakers: Badly out of shape, unemployed, completely lacks direction in life, lazy, substance abuser, dishonest, is into polyamoury, open relationships or any of that crap, weak, passive Edited December 7, 2012 by Eternal Sunshine 1
CptObvious Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 Physical: nice tits nice ass nice vag nice face Personality: obedient resilient Dealbreakers: suicidal homicidal ****ed up beyond reason I'm okay with gold diggers as long as they also let me dig into what I'm after.
MercuryMorrison1 Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 Physical Darker hair...I don't really dig blonds, but there have been a few that have really sparked my intrest. But generally I go for darker hair girls, brown, black...etc...etc. I'm not to particular about body type...But I'll be frank...I'm not a chubby chaser...Body types I tend to be attracted to range from thin, avarage, to athletic. I do have a thing for petite girls, girls who are between 5,0 and 5,5 and have delicate features. One thing that drive's me crazy (in a good way) is a good pair of legs...A girl with nice tone legs...ugh...Man gets all hot and sweaty. I don't have any racial preferance's. White, Black, Hispanic, Asian...I've seen girls from all race's that I thought were highly attractive. But I have to admit...I do have a particular intrest in Asian girls. I don't mind if she's tall or short...But my inner man generally want's her to be shorter than myself, which works out seeing as I'm 6,1...There's not to many girls out there who stand taller than me. Mental Intellectal girls can easily swoon me. I like girls who are on the same intellectual level as myself. Its a pretty big turn off for me if she's the party hard type who has no intrests other than drinking to blackout everynight possible. Emontionally stable...This is a big one, I've been with girls in the past who were unstable emontionally...Sometimes by someone else's doing. I mean we all have some baggage, but its VERY easy to have to much. Not to sound clich'e, but she'll also score big brownie points with me if she shows that she can is caring and compassionate. I like a girl who can let loose and have a good time, but at the same time its equally as impressive to me if she can also buckle down and be serious when need be. Deal Breakers Children...Sorry but Children just aren't for me. Emotionally unstable...As afromentioned a woman or man...Anyone for that matter, who is emotionally unstable, is generally more trouble that any potential relationship would be worth in my opinion. Mean bitchy types lose favor with me real fast...I can't even stand those types for a one night stand / short lived fling.
Jane2011 Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 (edited) Physically - I like guys who around 5'10" or 5'11", but I've also liked shorter. I don't care about hair color, although my preference is on the dark side. If it's not dark hair, at least brown. The one I'm with now has medium-brown hair. I'd say I would not want to date a blonde guy, but there really aren't that many guys I've seen with white blond or platinum blond hair, anyway (though I've seen that in women). I like good-looking guys; not necessarily model handsome, but friends have told me that I like pretty boys; they have sort of this classic good-lookingness to them; conventionally handsome shaped face, nose, etc. He should be physically fit, not necessarily super muscular though. Also don't care about skin color. I've liked really pale guys and really dark ones. Oh, very important. I like CLEAN guys. I'm not just "as long as he doesn't smell too bad." I like really clean men. The type who shower at least once a day, but could be twice. And who brush twice a day if not more. (And that he does it when it's most needed -- morning, just before bed, maybe a mid-day brush too). Mentally/Personality-Wise - smart/intellectual, not too macho, more of the coffee shop type of guy than the bar/lounge type of guy. I like men who are liberal in socio-political affiliation. A guy who'd more likely be reading a book or going to a lecture on some interesting subject than going hunting, playing sports, or going fishing. I like a guy who might have a particular physical activity he likes to do, or maybe one particular sport he likes watching, but he's not just all-around "into" sports. My deal breakers for now (that I can think of) would be smoking cigarettes, having kids, being sort of the business type. Edited December 7, 2012 by Jane2011
Imported Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 I am 5'11" barefoot, she needs to be shorter or just level to me in heels when I wear boots (I think I am right at 6' with most of my boots). In shape, fit, great skin tone, skinny. Not so muscular that her boobs look like they are not a part of her body or I think she is a bit too manly looking in any way. I am not worried about boob size, unless they are too big or...hang too much. More concerned about nipples and I like those small and concerted. Must have a nice shapely ass. I have zero problems with a flat chest...but flat ass is a problem. Leg curls, stair stepper, squats...get on it. Trimmed, smooth hygienic, clean vagina and likes to have it played with in all sorts of ways. Must be a fillatrix and likes to surprise me with such things. Must like wearing dresses and dressing up in general, because I like to do that to (dressing up in general...not wearing dresses....although I can absolutely rock a lava lava) and go places. Seriously, I love women that wear dresses and just looks so feminine. Even lounging around the house clothing should look nice and attractive, because it is in her nature and not even an effort. Has all sorts of sexy underwear, hosiery and long socks. Must be nice, but not feel like she owes anybody anything especially other mother****ing dudes that try to hit on her. Likes to bake and cook, I'll clean the dishes and pick up after myself. When she drinks alcohol and gets drunk, she is still basically the same person and not some slut that can't control herself....unless it's with me. Does not keep around "guy friends" that are obviously trying to be another cock in the hen house. Does not flirt with other guys. I don't care if it's "innocent flirting" or "in her nature". If I am ever devote to a girl again, I know who she is and will be devoted to her, she needs to be the same and not muck it up with some other guy because it's in her nature or she is trying to be nice.
Nightsky Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 physical: brown hair, brown eyes, baseball player/swimmer type of body Hmm interesting. personality: smart, witty, funny, sarcastic, can keep up with me. honestly, so many people are so freakin dumb. I can't even take it. when I make a joke, you must understand it, whether you think it's funny or not! loyal and all those typical things as well, those are givens on anyones list. but being smart and witty is a must. Very interesting. dealbreakers: dumb, too feminine, people-pleaser Hey I think I'm smart and manly, and I love antagonizing people. I think I may be your dream man veggirl. 1
veggirl Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 Hey I think I'm smart and manly, and I love antagonizing people. I think I may be your dream man veggirl. oh crap did I accidentally describe you? I really hate to partake in your ego-inflation!! sigh.
somedude81 Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 Female Between 3' and 7' Between 50 and 250 lbs. Aged 19-109 Having hair on her head is preferred but not required.
SmileFace Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 Female Between 3' and 7' Between 50 and 250 lbs. Aged 19-109 Having hair on her head is preferred but not required. So why wouldn't you date a girl who is 251? What is wrong with be being 18? So what if I amd 7'1! lol... this is how I feel about most of the responses you get on L.S. lol 2
Ross MwcFan Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 Physical: 1. Big tits 2. Chubby 3. Short 4. Pretty little sexy feet Mental: Someone who I click with Dealbreakers: 1. Stinky pussy 2. Doesn't wash often 3. None homebody, has to be out a lot of the time 3. Always has to be 'productive', and can never feel satisifed or fullfilled unless she's doing work 4. Nasty person
gaius Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 The main thing that catches my eye is a nice head of hair. The thicker the better and it has to be down to the shoulders at least. My girlfriend has a very impressive head of blonde hair. Personality wise, I like a strong woman who isn't going to take any ****. I need to be pushed back against on occasion and it just doesn't work well with meeker/super nice women. 1
somedude81 Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 So why wouldn't you date a girl who is 251? What is wrong with be being 18? So what if I amd 7'1! lol... this is how I feel about most of the responses you get on L.S. lol Hah, I was actually going to say 9-109 but then I realized that would make me a pedophile. 2
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