somedude81 Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 SD, I guess we need to think of these poor girls if they decide to wear 5 inch heels. I am sure most never do, but they want to have that option and for a guy to still be taller - certainly a very reasonable standard to have Then I'll wear my heels as well A lot of taller guys love shorter women. I've had guys 6 and above tell me Im the perfect height to them. I've never understood guys wanting girls much shorter than them. I went to the health clinic yesterday and the nurse must have been 4'11, which is only a 7" height different from me. Walking next to her, she just seemed tiny and like kid. I'm sure the feeling would be the same being 6' with a 5'3 girl. She might as well be a hobbit. (The Hobbit: An Unexpected Journey in theaters 12/14)
somedude81 Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 Lol, youre short for a human? So a hairy man should be willing to date an equally hairy woman? Women don't really come in hairy. Unless they all shave more than just their legs and pits?
mesmerized Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 (edited) Women don't really come in hairy. Unless they all shave more than just their legs and pits? A lot of women do a bit more than that. And Ive seen women with even chest hair! Point is what makes men and women physically attractive is different. For men it's their height and build. For women it's the proportions, skin, hair etc. Do you think not wanting to date a flat chested woman with no ass makes you a hypocrite? Edited December 7, 2012 by mesmerized
somedude81 Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 A lot of women do a bit more than that. And Ive seen women with even chest hair! Point is what makes men and women physically attractive is different. For men it's their height and build. For women it's the proportions, skin, hair etc. Do you think not wanting to date a flat chested woman with no ass makes you a hypocrite? Hey, I got a nice ass.
Eternal Sunshine Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 My brother's gf is a foot shorter than him. She looks like a little kid walking around with daddy. The height difference looks so unnatural. Our relatives kept asking "what's wrong with her, why is she is so short?" (she is about 5'2") - visually, it would look soooo much better if she were with a 5'8" guy. 1
iris219 Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 This why guys HAVE to have a cool personality. A cool, interesting personality makes men SO attractive. Unfortunately, I don't think attraction works that way for men. The last guy I dated was significantly less attractive than anyone I dated before--too skinny, teeth that made him look like a little mouse--but he has this great energy and is super smart. We all have a type, but sometimes we find ourselves attracted to someone who makes us think "WTF, how did that happen?" I just realized I find this short, pudgy guy attractive (I like tall and thin), and I feel this way because he's a fantastic dresser. He has this trendy, urban hipster style, which is rare around here. I wish he wasn't married!
mtber75 Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 IMHO standards are very subjective. For example: your definition of lowing your standards if you were to go out with fat lady may be a total turn on for other guys! True, I have friends who married and dated only big girls and they seem to love it. So this is truly in the eyes of the beholder as far as looks! My standards have gotten wider as I got older and wiser! I would serious date a fat girl if she has a killer personality that agrees with me!
mesmerized Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 My brother's gf is a foot shorter than him. She looks like a little kid walking around with daddy. The height difference looks so unnatural. Our relatives kept asking "what's wrong with her, why is she is so short?" (she is about 5'2") - visually, it would look soooo much better if she were with a 5'8" guy. What a load of ... Must be an aussie thing. I dated a guy almost a foot taller and not only we never got any bad comments, his family and friends told him he should think about putting a ring on it. And Im sorry but people don't date to be visually pleasing to others. 1
KungFuJoe Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 My brother's gf is a foot shorter than him. She looks like a little kid walking around with daddy. The height difference looks so unnatural. Our relatives kept asking "what's wrong with her, why is she is so short?" (she is about 5'2") - visually, it would look soooo much better if she were with a 5'8" guy. No offense but your relatives sound weird. Who asks if there is something wrong with a 5'2" which isn't even that short! I'm 6'2" and I dated a 5'2" girl and I had no problem with that. My current wife is 5'4" and I love her height. 1
ThaWholigan Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 Shorter girls are more into me I've noticed. Some of them just really like tall dudes. Speaking of standards, mine are just fine I feel .
jcrew11 Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 I judge people based on their willingness to put out. If they are more willing to put out, that makes them more attractive.
fortyninethousand322 Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 I think it's totally fair to judge anyone based on any criteria you want. There's really no such thing as "aegist" or "sexist" or "heightist" or whatever other label. You think women are only as good as their looks? That's fair. Men are only as good as their height and wallets? Also fair. You expect men to be suave and debonair? You expect women to shave body hair and dress well? You want a woman who is a "lady in the steets" (well, you know the rest) or a man to know his way around in bed? All fair. People get too hung up on these things rather than just going with it... 1
ThaWholigan Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 I judge people based on their willingness to put out. If they are more willing to put out, that makes them more attractive. Straight to the point. 1
tigressA Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 Some of us don't have a choice but to settle if we don't want to die a hermit. With that attitude you may as well be one
Failboy Posted December 8, 2012 Posted December 8, 2012 I don't know how old you are now but understand that if you really can't get your act together with women in your country you do have hope when you're ready to start a family. If that's you in the picture you seem like a good enough looking guy. It's kind of an odd picture but I can tell you're some what handsome. Obviously being a man is more about how you carry yourself than how you look in a picture and I can tell you lack confidence. An okay face is not enough when you're 5'6'' To me, confidence is a product of external validation.. if women were into me, I'd be confident. It baffles me how some full range losers can be confident, to be honest. Unless you are really dumb or really good at lying to yourself, there is no room for confidence when you're a full-time reject. I'm a realistic person, so there is no ground for any superman confidence when being me... that's just being real. Has nothing to do with self-pity. And yes, from my experience it is absolutely true that short women discriminate short men more than tall women do. That is why I clinch my fist anytime people on LS are like "Hey, just get a woman shorter than you, what's the problem?` " 3
IT Geek Posted December 8, 2012 Posted December 8, 2012 With that attitude you may as well be one It's hard not to have that attitude when you consistently get shot down and have forgotten how it even feels to kiss a woman. IN the past year, I've been on three first dates. One she basically said I was not doing it for her physically (unattractive). The other two just quit texting or returning calls. Not exactly an ego booster.
mesmerized Posted December 8, 2012 Posted December 8, 2012 It's hard not to have that attitude when you consistently get shot down and have forgotten how it even feels to kiss a woman. IN the past year, I've been on three first dates. One she basically said I was not doing it for her physically (unattractive). The other two just quit texting or returning calls. Not exactly an ego booster. Do you ask out overweight women or just the thin pretty ones?
Author Nightsky Posted December 8, 2012 Author Posted December 8, 2012 An okay face is not enough when you're 5'6'' To me, confidence is a product of external validation.. if women were into me, I'd be confident. It baffles me how some full range losers can be confident, to be honest. Unless you are really dumb or really good at lying to yourself, there is no room for confidence when you're a full-time reject. I'm a realistic person, so there is no ground for any superman confidence when being me... that's just being real. Has nothing to do with self-pity. And yes, from my experience it is absolutely true that short women discriminate short men more than tall women do. That is why I clinch my fist anytime people on LS are like "Hey, just get a woman shorter than you, what's the problem?` " My confidence comes from within that I can handle the situations that come my way. You see my confidence isn't that a particular girl will like me or what ever other external thing. My confidence is in myself. Lower the standard or bar for success you've set for yourself and celebrate the things you're good at.
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