Nightsky Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 Lowering your standards certainly is a good thing. Well the concept is to widen your net. Some people have weird unnatural standards that hinder them. See I generally don't find fat girls attractive, but if I found one sexy and good looking etc... I wouldn't just not date her because she's fat. You see what I'm saying here. I make attraction my standard. So if a girl has screwy teeth and crossed eyes and messy hair... she may still be damn sexy, in fact if I think she's below other peoples standards yet I find her really pretty, that just makes her hotter. Now for the most part I don't find fat old looking people hot, but if some fat old looking woman was hot to me I'd give it a try. So let nature lower your standards as low as they'll go.
pbjbear Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 Lowering your standards certainly is a good thing. Well the concept is to widen your net. Some people have weird unnatural standards that hinder them. See I generally don't find fat girls attractive, but if I found one sexy and good looking etc... I wouldn't just not date her because she's fat. You see what I'm saying here. I make attraction my standard. So if a girl has screwy teeth and crossed eyes and messy hair... she may still be damn sexy, in fact if I think she's below other peoples standards yet I find her really pretty, that just makes her hotter. Now for the most part I don't find fat old looking people hot, but if some fat old looking woman was hot to me I'd give it a try. So let nature lower your standards as low as they'll go. Good point...but I dont have low standards so Im not lowering them anymore.
SmileFace Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 Even my low standards have high standards... oh well.
Author Nightsky Posted December 7, 2012 Author Posted December 7, 2012 Good point...but I dont have low standards so Im not lowering them anymore. It's like when you're looking for a place to eat. The best meals don't always come from the 5 star restaurant. Some times it's the food truck. Hunger is the best spice when it comes to food. A similar thing happens to a horny man who has become very "lonely." 1
Author Nightsky Posted December 7, 2012 Author Posted December 7, 2012 Even my low standards have high standards... oh well. I want you to have high standards! 1
xdahliax Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 I don't have any standards to lower; I judge whether I'm attracted to someone or whether a relationship is possible on a case by case basis. People aren't just the sum of a few survey questions, you can surprise yourself by how your tastes can change when you fall for someone. 4
Author Nightsky Posted December 7, 2012 Author Posted December 7, 2012 I don't have any standards to lower; I judge whether I'm attracted to someone or whether a relationship is possible on a case by case basis. People aren't just the sum of a few survey questions, you can surprise yourself by how your tastes can change when you fall for someone. Yes pretty much how I judge, like does that girl catch my eye, and than from there is she still attractive when I start talking to her. Though not everyone is as mature as you or I so I thought I'd help them out.
pbjbear Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 I don't have any standards to lower; I judge whether I'm attracted to someone or whether a relationship is possible on a case by case basis. People aren't just the sum of a few survey questions, you can surprise yourself by how your tastes can change when you fall for someone. I agree with this mostly...there are a few things I know from alot of dating experience that will not be a good match for me so if I see it I wont waste my time...but generally yes
Author Nightsky Posted December 7, 2012 Author Posted December 7, 2012 I agree with this mostly...there are a few things I know from alot of dating experience that will not be a good match for me so if I see it I wont waste my time...but generally yes Well same here, but that would go to my attraction... though back to lowering standards concept... when the attraction allows i'll be able to ignore things more easily.
Eternal Sunshine Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 I can't really lower my standards any further. I go by if I am attracted to someone. The only way to lower them would be to date people I am not attracted to. I have even tried that and was miserable. My issue is that I am not attracted to many people. Attraction is sum of looks intelligence and personality. I am not particular about looks, I even found this bald guy that's shorter than me sexy...biggest deal breakers seem to be men that lack intelligence or integrity.
IT Geek Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 Not sure it's possible for a woman to lower her standards enough to give me a chance. LOL!
veggirl Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 WTF? "attraction" is everyone's standard. Crossed eyes, janky teeth, and nasty hair is NOT attractive on anyone. of course no one is all like "god he/she is so attractive!!! oh it's so outside of my comfort zone!! this attraction and all!!" lol oh my I don't see what you are saying here. unless it's like goofy stuff, like I never liked blonde guys, but then I dated a blonde guy. Does that count? he was really, really hot though...my standards were in tact........ hearmph.
MrCastle Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 I don't compromise my standards. Anyone who I'm attracted to meets my standards. Hence why I'm attracted to them. 2
Imajerk17 Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 I'm dating plenty as is. I get plenty of sex already. My standards work fine for me right now thank you.... 1
Author Nightsky Posted December 7, 2012 Author Posted December 7, 2012 WTF? "attraction" is everyone's standard. Crossed eyes, janky teeth, and nasty hair is NOT attractive on anyone. Well if some girl pulled it off in my subjective opion and I thought she was hot I wouldn't let those things stop me is all I was saying. Most likely I'd be all "look at the freak show!" of course no one is all like "god he/she is so attractive!!! oh it's so outside of my comfort zone!! this attraction and all!!" lol oh my I don't see what you are saying here. unless it's like goofy stuff, like I never liked blonde guys, but then I dated a blonde guy. Does that count? he was really, really hot though...my standards were in tact........ hearmph. What I'm saying is very confusing and I can see I've done a poor job of communicating it. I always here people say stuff to guys having dating troubles like "lower your standards" as if they were some idiot going after super models only. (that guy does exist) Now for the most part unless you have some weird high standard like "I will only date girls 5'8" you're going to have a wide range. Also even if you have that high standard and you can't change it nothing you can do. My point was a strange one but it was if you can lower your standards and still be 100% sexually pleased than do it. Obviously if you see some guy who can't get dates nature should work its magic on his mind and lower his expectations making it so the fatty now looks like a hotty. This is a very odd thought process. Maybe you're understanding ...
skydiveaddict Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 I don't compromise my standards. Anyone who I'm attracted to meets my standards. Hence why I'm attracted to them. I agree. You are either attracted to someone, or you are not. "Standards" don't have anything to do with it. 2
Author Nightsky Posted December 7, 2012 Author Posted December 7, 2012 I agree. You are either attracted to someone, or you are not. "Standards" don't have anything to do with it. I also agree but you can add standards in to muddy the water. It's like a scientific thing.
skydiveaddict Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 I also agree but you can add standards in to muddy the water. It's like a scientific thing. I guess. I've never really tried it tbh. It's just not how I roll.
Author Nightsky Posted December 7, 2012 Author Posted December 7, 2012 I guess. I've never really tried it tbh. It's just not how I roll. I like to think about things. I don't generally think in the terms of standards but it's something thrown out at people having dating problems. The say lower your standards. So hear I am thinking about it for purposes of communicating ideas.
Locust Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 Do any girls on here find Indian guys attractive?
SmileFace Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 Do any girls on here find Indian guys attractive? Why ask a question you know the answer to?
Failboy Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 Did that many years ago and still struggled. I have been past the stage in which one only goes for the ones one likes for a long, long time. If I only went for women I find attractive, I'd still be a virgin. I have very regular taste, if I find someone attractive so will most people which leaves me with very little to no chance at all. I came to the point that I even dated girls I found absolutely unattractive, it was pretty hard to get hard, sometimes impossible.
Author Nightsky Posted December 7, 2012 Author Posted December 7, 2012 Did that many years ago and still struggled. I have been past the stage in which one only goes for the ones one likes for a long, long time. If I only went for women I find attractive, I'd still be a virgin. I have very regular taste, if I find someone attractive so will most people which leaves me with very little to no chance at all. I came to the point that I even dated girls I found absolutely unattractive, it was pretty hard to get hard, sometimes impossible. See you did a bad thing. You have to date girls you like, not just use ugly girls for sex.
Locust Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 Why ask a question you know the answer to? I don't know. Because some girls will and some will. But I'm curious to know who does.
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