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Nightsky Established Member

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An idea of the message to send her that I came up with.

 

" Finals almost over Let’s do something to celebrate! Dining? Dancing? Disaster? We can wreck-it like Ralph.

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Note: She really liked Wreck it Ralph

 

You should have suggested the celebratory activity instead of asking her to pick one vaguely defined suggestion.

 

Something like lets have dinner on _________ at __________ and than dance the night away.

 

Than maybe say "I'm like Wreck it Ralph"

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STOP BEING A PUSSY!!

 

Go ask her out man :D:D:D

 

Yeah. Be number 36, and stop her from having a number 37, at least for a while. :p

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iris219 Established Member

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An idea of the message to send her that I came up with.

 

" Finals almost over Let’s do something to celebrate! Dining? Dancing? Disaster? We can wreck-it like Ralph.

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Note: She really liked Wreck it Ralph

 

Cute, but something specific would be better, so something like "Are you free Friday night? There's this great cafe over on ___ St. They have really good paninis. Do you want to go with me to celebrate finals week?

 

Your message makes it sound like you are trying way too hard.

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You should have suggested the celebratory activity instead of asking her to pick one vaguely defined suggestion.

 

Something like lets have dinner on _________ at __________ and than dance the night away.

 

Than maybe say "I'm like Wreck it Ralph"

 

Cute, but something specific would be better, so something like "Are you free Friday night? There's this great cafe over on ___ St. They have really good paninis. Do you want to go with me to celebrate finals week?

 

Your message makes it sound like you are trying way too hard.

Sounds like I was trying to hard? It just spontaneously came to me as I was thinking of things to do.

 

I don't understand why I'd want to pick a specific time and place which limits her to a yes or no response.

 

Heck I don't even know of any restaurants where I'd want to take her and on a specific date. Also we don't even live in the same city.

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OMG it was a 2 sentence msg, why are you people analyzing it so closely?!

 

I think it sounds good SD!!!!

 

Everyone else stop being buzzkills omg!

 

I think it was cute and fun!

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Nightsky Established Member

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Heck I don't even know of any restaurants where I'd want to take her and on a specific date. Also we don't even live in the same city.

 

These are the types of things you really should think about and not put on the girl you are asking out.

 

OMG it was a 2 sentence msg, why are you people analyzing it so closely?!

 

I think it sounds good SD!!!!

 

Everyone else stop being buzzkills omg!

 

I think it was cute and fun!

 

Stop killing my loveshack advice giving buzz I think my advice was cute and fun!

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OMG it was a 2 sentence msg, why are you people analyzing it so closely?!

 

I think it sounds good SD!!!!

 

Everyone else stop being buzzkills omg!

 

I think it was cute and fun!

I agree - it's certainly a start. He should just send the message now :p

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Nightsky Established Member

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I agree - it's certainly a start. He should just send the message now :p

 

Send it now somedude... now. With a specific time, place, and date. but now!

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I agree - it's certainly a start. He should just send the message now :p

Done, because Wholigan told me to.

 

At this point I don't even care about her response, just the team effort was fun.

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Nightsky Established Member

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Done, because Wholigan told me to.

 

At this point I don't even care about her response, just the team effort was fun.

 

Well if you really want to make it a team effort. Ask out some other girls on your facebook who live in the area. Even girls who may have turned you down before.

 

Be all "I was just thinking of you sexy eyes" or what ever. That's right while you're supposedly listening ask out a bunch of girls.

 

If you have 200 hot fb friend girls who live close enough to date, than ask away.

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:bunny::bunny::bunny::bunny:GO SOMEDUDE:bunny::bunny::bunny::bunny:
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Done, because Wholigan told me to.

 

At this point I don't even care about her response, just the team effort was fun.

 

Yay cool!

 

 

Stop killing my loveshack advice giving buzz I think my advice was cute and fun!

 

Lets not argue in public! It's unbecoming!

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Done, because Wholigan told me to.

 

At this point I don't even care about her response, just the team effort was fun.

 

:bunny: SD!

Nightsky Established Member

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Lets not argue in public! It's unbecoming!

 

Given the opportunity I'd slap your ass in public.

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Hah, so many people watching. It's like a viewing party.

 

It kind of reminds me of a bunch of people getting together to watch their favorite team play, when they know a win is impossible. But nobody really cares about that :)

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Hah, so many people watching. It's like a viewing party.

 

It kind of reminds me of a bunch of people getting together to watch their favorite team play, when they know a win is impossible. But nobody really cares about that :)

 

That's right son, enjoy the attention.

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Do your thing Somedude.

 

And let this be a start where you are more bold with women and more yourself. Take some risks ;).

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Hah, so many people watching. It's like a viewing party.

 

It kind of reminds me of a bunch of people getting together to watch their favorite team play, when they know a win is impossible. But nobody really cares about that :)

 

Not impossible! And they never get a chance to win, if they don't even try.

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Don't worry, dude. We'll get 50 people to 'like' your "I asked her out!" post pronto, okay?

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Done, because Wholigan told me to.

 

At this point I don't even care about her response, just the team effort was fun.

 

 

Great attitude there!

 

And now you should do pretty much everything TW tells you to, in this department anyway.

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Nothing to report on this girl. Facebook still says that she hasn't seen the message yet. But that's not why I'm posting.

 

A girl from my salsa class just friended me.

 

I haven't really talked to her that much during the class. But when I went to a salsa club as part of an assignments she was one of the few girls from the class who went. I talked to her a lot then and danced with her a few times. Then the class ended two sessions later and I didn't really talk to her after that. So I'm a little surprised that she found me on FB. We haven't spoken that much at all.

 

She arrived at the club with a female friend (that's also in the class) who came with a guy. I asked this girl if that guy was her friends boyfriend because she didn't dance with anybody else and she said yes. Then I asked her if she had a boyfriend, she said no, I jokingly asked why not, and she said that she didn't have time for one, then she started talking about the things she does etc.

 

So here I am. Do I just straight up ask her out?

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Friend her back from now. If the two of you "chat" on FB, then ask her out there--if you are interested.

 

I'm going to take a lot of flak from people for this: Why are you trying to ask women out via sending them messages on Facebook? Can't you see them in person next semester, which is only a few weeks away?

 

Nothing to report on this girl. Facebook still says that she hasn't seen the message yet. But that's not why I'm posting.

 

A girl from my salsa class just friended me.

 

I haven't really talked to her that much during the class. But when I went to a salsa club as part of an assignments she was one of the few girls from the class who went. I talked to her a lot then and danced with her a few times. Then the class ended two sessions later and I didn't really talk to her after that. So I'm a little surprised that she found me on FB. We haven't spoken that much at all.

 

She arrived at the club with a female friend (that's also in the class) who came with a guy. I asked this girl if that guy was her friends boyfriend because she didn't dance with anybody else and she said yes. Then I asked her if she had a boyfriend, she said no, I jokingly asked why not, and she said that she didn't have time for one, then she started talking about the things she does etc.

 

So here I am. Do I just straight up ask her out?

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There's also another girl I want to ask out, but I'm not even FB friends with her. I don't think I have that much of a chance with her.

 

Either way, it just seems creepy friending somebody and then asking them out right away. I wonder if girls think about that and wonder why the guy just didn't ask her out when they saw each other.

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There's also another girl I want to ask out, but I'm not even FB friends with her. I don't think I have that much of a chance with her.

 

Either way, it just seems creepy friending somebody and then asking them out right away. I wonder if girls think about that and wonder why the guy just didn't ask her out when they saw each other.

 

I already told you that the last date I went on was one where the guy found me on FB and asked me out. I didn't think it was creepy at all.

 

Ask out the girl who friended you.

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Friend her back from now. If the two of you "chat" on FB, then ask her out there--if you are interested.

 

I'm going to take a lot of flak from people for this: Why are you trying to ask women out via sending them messages on Facebook? Can't you see them in person next semester, which is only a few weeks away?

So you suggest I chat to her first? That sounds better than a random date invite.

 

As for why I'm asking out women on facebook. It's because school doesn't go back until the end of January and even then there is a huge chance I'll never see them again. If the girl isn't a business major, I would probably never run into her on campus.

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