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As a Man youre better off being a slight dick then being too nice

SteveC80

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SteveC80 Established Member

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First off this isnt a women like badboys thread i dont buy that per se but i think as a man being a slight ahole to people and showing social dominance in a group will turn women on more then being an overly nice guy or a guy women call a gentleman or sweetheart

 

Being a slight ahole or dick can also show in a womens mind masculine energy its a fine line, it defintely shows more masculine energy then a laid back really nice "sweet" guy

 

Women are no different then men in that part of what they are thinking about when judging a potential partner is how he is in the bedroom and showing dominance and being a slight dick can convince some owmen that you would have no problem domainting them like a caveman and slapping em around in the bedroom a little

 

Being nice and sweet is a trait thats a turn on for a women to be that way but as far as what women look for in a man being nice and sweet is way way dow on the list in what turns them on and gets their literal juiices flowing

Mme. Chaucer Established Member

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hasn't this been covered to the point of exhaustion already? They should make a master thread about "women like dickheads" so you guys have a place to go to rehash this over, and over, and over, and over.

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Mrlonelyone Established Member

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My $0.02. It's better to be a slight dick and/or a little bit of a *i*ch.

 

Assert what you want. It's not just about the bedroom. Life is tough, sometimes a man will need his woman to kick some butt for him and their children.

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Mme. Chaucer Established Member

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As has been said on another thread just a few minutes ago - the average woman is not checking guys she's meeting out and assessing what he might be like in the bedroom. Sure, it happens.

 

And people who appear to be weak doormats are not very appealing. Most of us admire backbone and a strong sense of self. Is that dicklike?

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SteveC80 Established Member

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hasn't this been covered to the point of exhaustion already? They should make a master thread about "women like dickheads" so you guys have a place to go to rehash this over, and over, and over, and over.

 

If youre here long enough every topic has been discussed ad naseum,not every topic has to interest you personally,why waste the energy posting in it if it doesnt interest you?

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First off this isnt a women like badboys thread i dont buy that per se but i think as a man being a slight ahole to people and showing social dominance in a group will turn women on more then being an overly nice guy or a guy women call a gentleman or sweetheart

 

Being a slight ahole or dick can also show in a womens mind masculine energy its a fine line, it defintely shows more masculine energy then a laid back really nice "sweet" guy

 

Women are no different then men in that part of what they are thinking about when judging a potential partner is how he is in the bedroom and showing dominance and being a slight dick can convince some owmen that you would have no problem domainting them like a caveman and slapping em around in the bedroom a little

 

Being nice and sweet is a trait thats a turn on for a women to be that way but as far as what women look for in a man being nice and sweet is way way dow on the list in what turns them on and gets their literal juiices flowing

 

I don't know if women correlate nice/shy with not being dominant or good in the sack but if it is they're wrong because I'm a little shy at first but little does she know that I'd lick it till my tongue falls off! Her loss :(

LittlePrince Established Member

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As a man you're better off being a man whore than a virgin.

Mme. Chaucer Established Member

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If youre here long enough every topic has been discussed ad naseum

 

Not as nauseum as this one! And that's why I think it deserves "master thread" status, along with the short guys, penis size, porno, etc.

 

Come to think of it, don't we have a "nice guys" thread already?

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SteveC80 Established Member

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Not as nauseum as this one! And that's why I think it deserves "master thread" status, along with the short guys, penis size, porno, etc.

 

Come to think of it, don't we have a "nice guys" thread already?

 

As i said this site isnt gonna stop to appease you and get rid of any threads or topics that dont interest you

 

How about you just avoid this thread and concentrate on the threads that interest you? seems silly to care that much to post about it,just ignore it, it isnt hindering your life or anything

truth_seeker Established Member

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Edge = exciting / Sweet = safe

 

Some women like edge; some like sweet.

 

Its just a matter of meeting the right girl for you.

ThaWholigan Established Member

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As a man, you're better off finding that synthesis between "dick" and "nice" and finding a natural expression that fits you perfectly as a person, that you are happy with and comfortable with as well as being able to convey it in an amiable manner that benefits you.

 

Then you'll find what you're looking for.

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I had a longer post but that would be too 'nice'. ;)

 

Historically, being a slight dick went a long way towards turning approaches into dates and dates into LTR's and LTR's into marriage. 'Dick' in my case was mostly being more vocally assertive about boundaries and disengaging if they weren't respected or my needs weren't being met. Perhaps that would be 'normal' for another man, but it was certainly a departure into 'caring less' for myself. Being married taught another round of lessons about being a healthy 'dick' and what losing that quality can cost a man. Life is about lessons.

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While ive seen this at work where my friend has been called arrogant and full of himself by women yet at the same time they either sleep with him or talk about how hot he is and these same women say what a great guy iam and i get nothing i dont know if its that nicneess turn women off and they like dicks as much as they just likw hot guys and will put up with some personality flaws as long as the guys good looking enough..

 

Where if they dont find u attractive it doesnt matter how good a guy you are its not gonna make women physically attracted to you..

FitChick Established Member

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There is a difference between being a dick and a pussy. Women like a dick but only if it's attached to a nice guy.

dasein Established Member

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hasn't this been covered to the point of exhaustion already? They should make a master thread about "women like dickheads" so you guys have a place to go to rehash this over, and over, and over, and over.

 

Ask for a thread, I asked for an age gap thread and they made one.

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There is a difference between being a dick and a pussy. Women like a dick but only if it's attached to a nice guy.

 

Just got a Team America World Police flashback. :laugh:

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