Wonder310 Posted December 6, 2012 Posted December 6, 2012 After a year of talking, she broke up with me. She says I was too clingy & I got mad & jealous over everything. I didn't used to be "clingy", until I fell for her & let my guard down, which was a huge mistake. I told her that I'll change & I kept annoying her for a while (blowing up her phone). She finally called me & we talked. I asked her what she wanted to do & she said "We will see." So it's been about 3 days & I think I annoyed her again. I kept asking her too many questions. I asked her if she liked me & if she wanted to start fresh. She got mad & I kept making her even more mad. So she hung up on me out of nowhere. She told me that she shouldn't have called me in the first place. She also said that she doesn't want to be with me. I know what I did wrong. I kept asking questions when things started to get good. I already told her that I'll leave her alone, but should I text her one last time admitting what I did wrong? Or should I do the no contact thing? I need advice :/
WhatYouWantToHear Posted December 6, 2012 Posted December 6, 2012 should I text her one last time admitting what I did wrong? Yes, and when she doesn't respond or gets mad, you should do it one last, last time apologizing for your last time. And if she gets mad at that or ignores your last, last response, you should send one last, last, last response apologizing for your last, last response. And if she gets mad or ignores that, I'd send one last, last, last, last response apologizing for your last, last, last response. And if.... 1
justwhoiam Posted December 6, 2012 Posted December 6, 2012 The previous one was a funny answer The matter is quite delicate. What do women want? If you leave, you didn't love her in the first place, love was too weak or you were not strong enough to make it last... on the other hand, if any word coming out of your mouth is just going to get her mad, frustrated, bothered etc., love has left the building. Don't contact her for a while, like a whole month or two. And then say what you have to say by email. She will have time to read it and reread it whenever she feels like, and think it over. Maybe she already made her decision and the decision is final. Maybe not. Maybe you started getting on her nerves with no return. When you get to that point, it's hard to make it work. It dies. However, maybe she would love to get along with you, but she knows it won't be possible, and that causes more frustration. Because in her head she knows there's no way to make it work. P.S. I wouldn't end a relationship because he's jealous, so you probably did something bad.
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