Steve11 Posted December 6, 2012 Posted December 6, 2012 I've been on here before when my previous relationship ended and I was emotionally destroyed. Funny enough, she tried contacting me when I was in my most recent relationship and I palmed her off! We broke up 4 days ago, but I was thinking differently and had to call her to get closure yesterday. So, for me it feels likes its been day. I'm torn up, big time. We were together for 1 year 3 months. We had a really quick relationship at first. She moved vey quickly, telling me she loved me, wanting to live with me etc. she eventually ended up moving into my parents, but as you can imagine it only lasted a few months. She then moved out into her own rented accommodation. I've been practically living there, albeit the odd day when is stay at home. I own my own house, but I'm doing it up so its uninhabitable, she was going to live there when it was done, but then decided she doesn't. She has a lot of issues. Her parents separated when she was younger and she has no relationship with her dad. She is very Insecure and when she has a drink it all comes out. She can be really abusive and at times said some really hurtful things to me. I wasn't perfect and after a while rather than take the abuse I argued back which made things twice as worse. We stopped having sex which was another issue. We had a break before and said we need to give each other more space in the relationship but when we got back we didn't. I wanted to have days away from her, but she'd get angry if I suggested it. It wasn't all doom and gloom and we had a really great time. She said that she needed time to re-analyse her life, where she wanted to work, live etc and that we need time apart. I told her I want to keep trying with us, but she said that if we are meant to be together then we will, but for now we need to focus on our own lives. I'm f-cked. For all her flaws, I loved her so much.
Author Steve11 Posted December 6, 2012 Author Posted December 6, 2012 She still got some of my stuff and vica versa, I want it back, but want to have enough pride to get it myself. I know it'll screw me up again, but I don't want to resort to someone else getting it.
Buns Posted December 8, 2012 Posted December 8, 2012 If it will screw you up again, I would definatly get someone else to get it for you... My mother went to my exes place about 5 times to get all my stuff..it would have destroyed me to go back, to the home I'd helped create, that someone other woman would be living in one day.
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