lovebug1234 Posted December 6, 2012 Posted December 6, 2012 What does it mean when a guy keeps saying he would LOVE to hang out but he's always too busy, is he just too nice to decline? I feel a little torn with the chasing. I'm a pretty busy person myself so when someone ask me out a few times I might go out, esp if I'm attracted to the person. I work a lot so I'm actually pretty happy when someone is persistent enough to actually convince me to leave work behind. Is this the same way for men who work too much? I'm not sure, he's expressing interest each time I ask him out and he enjoys it when we actually DO hang out. I know I'm suppose to let him do the chasing but I just adore this guy.
Tara247 Posted December 6, 2012 Posted December 6, 2012 Stop chasing him. He's not into you, or you wouldn't have to chase him.
Toddbt12y1 Posted December 6, 2012 Posted December 6, 2012 What does it mean when a guy keeps saying he would LOVE to hang out but he's always too busy, is he just too nice to decline? I feel a little torn with the chasing. I'm a pretty busy person myself so when someone ask me out a few times I might go out, esp if I'm attracted to the person. I work a lot so I'm actually pretty happy when someone is persistent enough to actually convince me to leave work behind. Is this the same way for men who work too much? I'm not sure, he's expressing interest each time I ask him out and he enjoys it when we actually DO hang out. I know I'm suppose to let him do the chasing but I just adore this guy. He might be too busy or might not be too busy, I cannot tell you that as a reason why. He might be one of those guys that likes to be chased by a girl. What I would do is, stop contacting him, for a short while, and see if he tries even harder: Reverse it. Make him chase you. Otherwise, this may not workout. 1
CptObvious Posted December 6, 2012 Posted December 6, 2012 yes, we're busy. Gym, tan, laundry, work, and then we deal with the waitlist.
xpaperxcutx Posted December 6, 2012 Posted December 6, 2012 It's a matter of give and take. If both parties are willing to contribute then the effort and reward would be divided equally 50-50. The fact is, you are doing mostly the chasing and he's giving you the runaround. I'm sure he enjoyed the ego strokes, but you're a beautiful, albeit busy woman to have to stoop to chasing. Take his excuses as the answer that he's just to lazy to want to date you. Obviously a man who is interested wouldn't make the lady wait, let alone take a raincheck.
Cutiepie1976 Posted December 6, 2012 Posted December 6, 2012 Stop chasing him. He's not into you, or you wouldn't have to chase him. Agreed! The fact that you keep chasing after him despite his disinterest is going to get you used as a booty call when he's bored one day and has nothing better to do. Don't you deserve better than that, even if you "adore" him? 1
Nightsky Posted December 6, 2012 Posted December 6, 2012 Are you hot? How old are you? I NEED TOoo know Anyways he sounds like a loser. He should just lie and say he has a gf if he doesn't want to see you or outright reject you. If he does like you but really is to busy it doesn't make sense. I mean I could work 100% of the time and I'd be like "hey baby I work 100% of the time why don't you come to my work during one of my <breaks> and I'll show you around the toy factory." It's like wheres the time management. Maybe he's a PUA and he's waiting for the big magic trick to show up in the mail.
FitChick Posted December 6, 2012 Posted December 6, 2012 He doesn't have time to hang out because he is too busy dating.
carhill Posted December 6, 2012 Posted December 6, 2012 What does it mean when a guy keeps saying he would LOVE to hang out but he's always too busy, is he just too nice to decline? It means he has insufficient interest or attraction to include the person is his schedule. 'Love to hang out' is social Astroglide. It means nothing. 1
Cutiepie1976 Posted December 6, 2012 Posted December 6, 2012 'Love to hang out' is social Astroglide. It means nothing. :laugh::laugh: That about says it!
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