sweetxox31 Posted December 6, 2012 Posted December 6, 2012 So i met this guy in my class and i thought he was cute. We got along good and would hang out in a group with other people after class. I suggested that we all go out together one weekend so we exchanged numbers and he seemed flirty. Long story short.. at the end of the night I ended up sleeping with him. That week we saw each other and talked like friends like nothing happened, everything was fine. Then the next weekend I invited him and his friends to a party and we had a great time.. then we slept together again but this time he slept over and we hung out in the morning a little. The next night i texted him to hang out and he said he wasn't going out... and didn't respond to my next text. Now this week in class he has been a little distant and hasn't really texted me much.. but we have talked as friends I am starting to like him and i know it was way too early to have sex! I don't want a relationship with him since i just got out of one but I would like to be more than friends and continue to hang out with him... i feel like he's pulling away. Should i just wait and see if he contacts me this weekend to hang out or should i make a move and try to talk to him about it? I don't want to scare him off.. am i being paranoid and insecure?? help!
Toddbt12y1 Posted December 6, 2012 Posted December 6, 2012 Don't worry. I am sure when he's horny again he will contact you. But since this is casual and not a relationship...well or ever. I guess it doesn't matter tho he will contact you just give him a break for a moment.
rn0408 Posted December 6, 2012 Posted December 6, 2012 Girl, you got played.. classic hit and quit! 1
ImperfectionisBeauty Posted December 6, 2012 Posted December 6, 2012 You were a toot and boot... duh.
veggirl Posted December 6, 2012 Posted December 6, 2012 You want to be more than friends but not in a relationship? so you want to be FWB? I am sure he would be fine with that if you told him that is what you want....
Author sweetxox31 Posted December 6, 2012 Author Posted December 6, 2012 yeah i'm hoping it wasn't a toot it and boot it though.. maybe i'll wait for this weekend and wait for him to hit me up first cause all the other times i think i've initiated it.. then if we hang out i'll ask him if he wants to be friends with benefits.. thanks!
ImperfectionisBeauty Posted December 6, 2012 Posted December 6, 2012 yeah i'm hoping it wasn't a toot it and boot it though.. maybe i'll wait for this weekend and wait for him to hit me up first cause all the other times i think i've initiated it.. then if we hang out i'll ask him if he wants to be friends with benefits.. thanks! Definitely do not send the first text again don't seem desperate.
mitchell Posted December 6, 2012 Posted December 6, 2012 How was the sex? Worth pursuing? If you just want a FWB and no relationship, you may as well lay it on the line.
Author sweetxox31 Posted December 7, 2012 Author Posted December 7, 2012 How was the sex? Worth pursuing? If you just want a FWB and no relationship, you may as well lay it on the line. The sex was good but its not just about that.. I just want to have a guy give me some attention. a guy that i like that i can hang out with once in a while and be physical with.. but not be tied down in a relationship.. I think i'll just wait for the weekend and see if he contacts me then i'll talk to him about it if i don't chicken out! 1
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