Highschool Posted December 5, 2012 Posted December 5, 2012 Continuation from here: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/360446-high-school-guy-first-relationship Okay, here's an update. I talked to this girl after class for a bit during lunch and a bit after school, I just told her to keep an open mind, but she's under the impression that a relationship might stop her from going to university. She says she likes being around me a lot and everything, but that we don't have much time and that we need to focus on getting into university. I understand where she's coming from, but I'm not sure if she actually thinks that this will hinder her chances at university or something or if she's not attracted to me all that much. I mean I consider myself pretty responsible, it's not going to be like a "Relationship and screw everything else" type of thing, school comes first and always will, and when she's free (her schedule is kinda busy lol) we could see each other. I don't know. :$ Like I don't want to push this but damn I really feel like this could be great.... ---- We also planned to see the movie "The Hobbit" when it came out and she seemed very excited about it today. She was saying how she was talking to her friends and that she told them she couldn't go to see it with them because she was already going with someone, and she was asking when we were planning on going etc. We planned for next Saturday at 7pm, and she said that her dad is off and was planning to drive so cool. I thought her parents were super strict, so I'm not sure if that's a good thing or not. We kinda planned this during class though lol, and another girl who I think likes me a lot gave me a look that said something like "You're going to see a movie with HER??" and asked if she could come. We're kind of friends, more aquaintences, and the girl I'm going with said that she'd totally be fine for the other girl to go too. Other girl has a car too and can drive, but only on Friday so we'd have to switch the date (and the girl that I wanted to go with alone's dad can't drive on Friday anyway). We didn't officially switch, but I kinda wanted to go with her alone. :$ --------- Where should I go with this, and how do I politely tell this other girl that I'd like to go with the girl by myself? I also don't know if the girl I want to get into a relationship with is actually saying what she believes and thinks that there isn't a way we can do this while still maintaining good study habits/responsibility, or if there's other reasons (i.e she's not ready for a relationship or her parents hate the idea) that she doesn't want to tell me. I really think we could have something great, and if that's the only reason then we could definitely get around it...
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