Need answer to a gift question

[Lakespookie]

Just a quick question

 

i have a ring i bought back in nov of last yr for my then girlfriend its been siting in my house since then cause i never found the right moment to give it to her and then my life got turned upside down

 

 

anyways my question i this i dont feel right giving it to someone else and i obviuosly cant return it would it be wrong to give it to her on her b-day and shoud i include an explenation with the present of just give it to her ?? any help would be appreciated

 

 

thanks in advance Lakespookie btw details of the trauma are on here just search for threads with me as the author

[HokeyReligions]

I didn't read your other threads, but if you are broken up with the girl for whom you bought the ring, why not sell the ring?

 

Also -- many jewelers will take a ring that they sold previously and allow you to use that toward a new ring (of more value) so if you have your receipt and go back to the jeweler and want to buy something bigger you may be able to get the value out of the ring. I've done this at Helzeburg and Kay Jewelers -- check with the jeweler where you bought the other ring.

[Lakespookie]

no recipt but ill look into it

[HokeyReligions]

Originally posted by Lakespookie

no recipt but ill look into it

 

The jeweler may still have records of the sale. Did you pay with a check or credit card? Talk to the jeweler first. If that doesn't work out, what about just selling the ring?

[Lakespookie]

paid cash

 

btw nice avatar

[faux]

If this is the girl who thought the FBI was chasing her, I think you should stay the hell away from her. If you really have no idea of what you feel right doing with the ring at the moment, stash it away in a safe place and worry about it later.

 

It is entirely possible that you could sell it to a jeweler, pawn shop, or at a flea market for a decent amount of money.