what to do?

[aloneinphx]

well im sure im not alone in my pain i met and dated what i thought was my perfect match and she broke my heart a little over two weeks ago and i don't totally know why we have not talked about it im 37 and fairly successful she is 28 and a single mom with a good job we met at driving school friends for awhile than started dating she was the one that suggested we move forward to the dating stage and i was more than happy to she filled me in on her background we were very honest with each other she even told me she was afraid of committment but love becomes blind ovet the next 8 months things were very good we had our ups and downs as all couples do and i put more into the relationship than she did i thought some of it was age going out every week-end with my friends is just not that important to me anymore than she started to change become a little more distant and almost get a little mean we even talked about breaking up or at least spending some time apart she said she just was not sure what she wanted i of course told her she should want me anyway we went to cancun in mid june had a wonderful time came back with a great attitude about us even her friends were telling me how she was so happy about the relationship after the trip that about 3 weeks ago all the sudden one night she was crying telling me she knows she will hurt me oneday that was thursday we did not meet again till sunday we had plans to spend the day in the pool for she was leaving to cleveland to see her family on the following wednesday on a plane ticket i bought for her and her son

anyway to make a long story a little shorter she had dinner plans that night with some friends called me to come join them she wanted to pay the whole bill we got in a little tiff she stormed out and we have never talked about it again i texted for a few days she finnally texted back that she knows we will never work and she loves me we played the text email game for the last two weeks all i ever got was it was not about my actions on that sunday it was about her she made a couple stupid reasons to get ahold of me but to this point i have never got an explaination so for the last two days i have gone to no contact this is the first time i have ever had a broken heart at my age hard to beleave so this is all new i have let her know how i feel and i think that is enough but i was i knew what happened and if there is ever a chance for us i treated her very good like she has never been treated before and i will not make contact again because if she wanted me too she would have responded to my letters in a way to let me know she is trying to fiqure this all out i just wonder is there any chance time can fix all this?

[YellowLioness]

Hey, I'd love to help, but I can't read your posts. There is no punctuation, or any kind of a space between sentences, or capital letters. Can you redo your post?