blugirlami21 Posted December 5, 2012 Posted December 5, 2012 So I was a retail store today and a nicely dressed worker, I assumed he was in management was kind of following me with his eyes and he finally stopped me and asked me how old I was? I answered and his face kind of fell because I was older than he thought I was going to be. I'm about six years older than him, 26 to his 21. Anyway he asked for my number and I gave it he seemed nice. He said that he would text me later on that night. Night comes and he texts me, he asked me the usual things until he asked me where I lived, which is not totally weird but it usually doesn't come up so quickly during introductions. He then asked me what I was doing tonight, it was around seven thirty at the time but I was dead tired and I told him so. I asked for a rain check assuming that he wanted to go out but he then told me that he had actually wanted to stop by and chat for a sec. That gave me pause. I gave him the benefit of the doubt and texted him a funny reply about me being in sleep mode and he lol'd with me but I didn't text him again after that and he hasn't either. I asked my sister and my cousin about it and they thought it was really strange as well. Am I overreacting? Should I just cease communications? Unsure.
Toddbt12y1 Posted December 5, 2012 Posted December 5, 2012 Him wanting to come by your house so late when you're asleep; especially come to your house and you really don't know him. I caution you with being extremely careful. He could very well be thinking he could seduce you or worse...who knows?
rocketman122 Posted December 5, 2012 Posted December 5, 2012 So I was a retail store today and a nicely dressed worker, I assumed he was in management was kind of following me with his eyes and he finally stopped me and asked me how old I was? I answered and his face kind of fell because I was older than he thought I was going to be. I'm about six years older than him, 26 to his 21. Anyway he asked for my number and I gave it he seemed nice. He said that he would text me later on that night. Night comes and he texts me, he asked me the usual things until he asked me where I lived, which is not totally weird but it usually doesn't come up so quickly during introductions. He then asked me what I was doing tonight, it was around seven thirty at the time but I was dead tired and I told him so. I asked for a rain check assuming that he wanted to go out but he then told me that he had actually wanted to stop by and chat for a sec. That gave me pause. I gave him the benefit of the doubt and texted him a funny reply about me being in sleep mode and he lol'd with me but I didn't text him again after that and he hasn't either. I asked my sister and my cousin about it and they thought it was really strange as well. Am I overreacting? Should I just cease communications? Unsure. Yes, its strange..what ever happened to using the phone for phone calls? that way there's no misunderstanding and "strangeness". he's a wimp for not calling. If I was a woman I would not date a guy who wimped by texting instead of calling. the mass of my communication is calling with teasing flirting and short texts in between those with my GF. I want someone who takes initiative and is a bit assertive.
rocketman122 Posted December 5, 2012 Posted December 5, 2012 Him wanting to come by your house so late when you're asleep; especially come to your house and you really don't know him. I caution you with being extremely careful. He could very well be thinking he could seduce you or worse...who knows? yes, maybe he would text her to death..
veggirl Posted December 5, 2012 Posted December 5, 2012 I mean, his first question to you when he saw you in the store was "how old are you"....he is very clearly a kid. I'm not surprised he asked where you lived and said he wanted to come over, that is how kids his age do it now. You don't date, you hang out..blah blah. What are you looking for? Personally I'd never ever bother with a 21 yr old at 26 unless all you want is sex. At that age, he's not gonna be good for much more than that.
Toddbt12y1 Posted December 5, 2012 Posted December 5, 2012 yes, maybe he would text her to death.. Considering that he asked to come over...assuming she didn't give him her address before, he would come. Texting is common practice these days. Way more than phone calls. Coward or not, it is never wise to under-estimate what anyone could do.... Besides cowards do some of the evilist things at times.
veggirl Posted December 5, 2012 Posted December 5, 2012 He's 21, his first question to a woman was "how old are you"...of course he doesn't have social graces. Totally not surprised he asked where you live and said he wanted to come over. that's how kids his age do things...they hang out. If you just want sex, he would be a good candidate, possibly. If you want anything else, don't bother with a 21 yr old kid.
iiiii Posted December 5, 2012 Posted December 5, 2012 It is a bit weird, but perhaps he just didn't realise how creepy it sounded. Some guys are oblivious to that type of thing, I guess because they never need to consider it in relation to themselves? I'd say if you're interested, text him tomorrow proposing meeting up for the chat in a public, safe place, a coffee shop or similar.
rocketman122 Posted December 5, 2012 Posted December 5, 2012 I had a cell phone years before you even saw one. that I can promise you. unless you show me statistics that show cowards do more evil than non cowards, your statement is only an opinion. something you assuming.
Toddbt12y1 Posted December 5, 2012 Posted December 5, 2012 Doesn't matter how long you have had a cell-phone. You missed the point of the coward. I'm taking worse into effect, no? Aren't killers and rapers cowards by effect? Then again I wasn't calling the Guy that either. Only to take caution. You are making an opinion too. "He's a coward because he texts and not calls" that's opinion. Unless you know for sure if he is a coward or not, going by that is assuming too. Any case in point. We are detailing this thread. So if you have anything else to say say it. Then it ends. ..no sense in detailing this thread any further
truth_seeker Posted December 5, 2012 Posted December 5, 2012 So I was a retail store today and a nicely dressed worker, I assumed he was in management was kind of following me with his eyes and he finally stopped me and asked me how old I was? I answered and his face kind of fell because I was older than he thought I was going to be. I'm about six years older than him, 26 to his 21. Anyway he asked for my number and I gave it he seemed nice. He said that he would text me later on that night. Night comes and he texts me, he asked me the usual things until he asked me where I lived, which is not totally weird but it usually doesn't come up so quickly during introductions. He then asked me what I was doing tonight, it was around seven thirty at the time but I was dead tired and I told him so. I asked for a rain check assuming that he wanted to go out but he then told me that he had actually wanted to stop by and chat for a sec. That gave me pause. I gave him the benefit of the doubt and texted him a funny reply about me being in sleep mode and he lol'd with me but I didn't text him again after that and he hasn't either. I asked my sister and my cousin about it and they thought it was really strange as well. Am I overreacting? Should I just cease communications? Unsure. So, this guy follows you around a store, speaks to you, you give him your number, that same night he texts you asking to come to your house to see you. This correct? If it is, stupid you for giving your number out when you should have asked for his and then decide if you wanted to contact him. I suggest you text him back and tell him you have an "ex-boyfriend" you're not really over and gave out your number in a moment of weakness. If he pesters you, just ignore him till he stops texting you.
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