pbjbear Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 Women don't **** your personality, if I approach a woman I bet she knows 95% the second she saw me if I was yes\no. There wouldn't be no instant rejections if it wasn't like that. The time they lay eyes on you, it's either would like to know better or not. Men do the same exact thing unless theyre desperate. Its life people. But I do agree creepy is overused by the female population. Anyone ever see American Horror Story? The boy Tate in the first season...TOTAL creeper. But because hes cute, its not seen as creepy he is seen as hot and his crazy girls fan want him to act even creepier. Society freaks me out. The guy is cute but damn I still am not turned on by it.
GirlontheLam Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 I though women in most cases know in 10 sec if they wana **** you are not. I'd say, most women will know within in 10 seconds if they never want to. Most people fall into the grey. Need more evidence, positive or negative. 1
charlietheginger Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 A girl came into the gym tonight Blackspandex shorts wedged up her Ass black spandex bra... t shirt With sides cut out..tan all over Full make up She was cute but had a jelly roll Around her lower back.... Prob age 22 23...looked like maybe she Was once a highschool cheerleader She stretched and moved around the gym Working out in front of men..looking at Men walking by men.... I was thinking she was a attention whore But in reality she was a creeper Watched men work out and trying to Use her body to get their attention... All i thought about was this creepy chick Is prob struting around looking to spread And std with any cute guy that approaches Her
Under The Radar Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 I'd say, most women will know within in 10 seconds if they never want to. Most people fall into the grey. Need more evidence, positive or negative. Yeah, I would agree with this. My experience with women is that the answer is no or maybe in the first minute or so of the initial meeting. For guys it's generally a straight up yes or no; there is less of a grey area.
Under The Radar Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 A girl came into the gym tonight Blackspandex shorts wedged up her Ass black spandex bra... t shirt With sides cut out..tan all over Full make up She was cute but had a jelly roll Around her lower back.... Prob age 22 23...looked like maybe she Was once a highschool cheerleader She stretched and moved around the gym Working out in front of men..looking at Men walking by men.... I was thinking she was a attention whore But in reality she was a creeper Watched men work out and trying to Use her body to get their attention... All i thought about was this creepy chick Is prob struting around looking to spread And std with any cute guy that approaches Her Yeah, looks like she was exhibiting classic symptomatology of FCS ... Female Creeper Syndrome .
charlietheginger Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 Yeah, looks like she was exhibiting classic symptomatology of FCS ... Female Creeper Syndrome . Ive had a female creeper before..... While working out i would leave a towel On something with my water.. Use restroom towel was gone.. Happened 3 times ... I asked a guy to watch my stuff.... Went to restroom he told me who did It... I went to the treadmills grabbed towel And walked away...it was a teenage girl Prob 17 at the time i was prob 25 Next day a note was on my windshield Saying "im sorry my friend and i thought it was funny , we would watch you look for your Towel my apologizes we did it to several guys" on my side mirror of my truck was a bag with 5 new towels She disappeared never saw her again intill One day at publix i said thanks for the towels She blushed quit silence... I said its ok i play pranks on people at the gym.. also
Els Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 Hopefully this thread serves as sufficient proof to anyone that it isn't just women sprinkling the C-word liberally across their descriptions of the opposite sex.
dasein Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 Hopefully this thread serves as sufficient proof to anyone that it isn't just women sprinkling the C-word liberally across their descriptions of the opposite sex. No, it doesn't, men rarely use the term, here or elsewhere, and in this thread, it is being used by men to make a point. The only rational response is that all perjorative terms used against anyone should be used only when there is significant evidence accompanying use of the term. A fat woman is not a "pig" merely because she is fat, a man or woman is not a "player" merely because they didn't automatically seek a relationship after sex. A woman is not a "bitch" merely because she said no to a date. And a man is not "creepy" or a "creeper" merely because a woman finds him unattractive, shy or awkward when he approaches. Today, "creepy" is overused far more than those other terms, here and elsewhere, and it needs to stop.
Imported Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 Just be attractive, it's not that big of a deal.
pbjbear Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 Yeah, I would agree with this. My experience with women is that the answer is no or maybe in the first minute or so of the initial meeting. For guys it's generally a straight up yes or no; there is less of a grey area. For some guys there can be a gray area but I say for most men it is a yes/no and they wont change their mind. Women are more likely to change their mind if a guys personality is really attractive. Men on the other hand, that is less likely to happen. I see the OP of this thread prob had some bad experiences and is negative towards women and I get that...but bigger-picture wise, men are more shallow in terms of looks. I see average looking men with beautiful women all the time and no, the guy isnt rich or famous. I have seen one example of a beautiful man with an average looking woman. I work in social research. Men place looks in the top 3 traits of a marriage partner and women, the top 10. This is an average so there are always outliers (and thank god for that) but men place more importance on looks (on average)
Under The Radar Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 No, it doesn't, men rarely use the term, here or elsewhere, and in this thread, it is being used by men to make a point. The only rational response is that all perjorative terms used against anyone should be used only when there is significant evidence accompanying use of the term. A fat woman is not a "pig" merely because she is fat, a man or woman is not a "player" merely because they didn't automatically seek a relationship after sex. A woman is not a "bitch" merely because she said no to a date. And a man is not "creepy" or a "creeper" merely because a woman finds him unattractive, shy or awkward when he approaches. Today, "creepy" is overused far more than those other terms, here and elsewhere, and it needs to stop. BREAKING NEWS: So, I just got out of a conference call with my nine board members, and we have unanimously reached a decision. We hereby award this post the most "NON CREEPY" contribution to the thread . We wanted to thank all of the other participants, but unfortunately, there can be only one winner. I appreciate everyone's support through this grueling process to understand how inappropriate the "C - WORD" can be in the dating world. It's great when people, from all walks of life, can come together in agreement of such a profound and mature realization. Please, carry on, and never forget the valuable lessons we have learned here today .
Anela Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 No, it doesn't, men rarely use the term, here or elsewhere, and in this thread, it is being used by men to make a point. The only rational response is that all perjorative terms used against anyone should be used only when there is significant evidence accompanying use of the term. A fat woman is not a "pig" merely because she is fat, a man or woman is not a "player" merely because they didn't automatically seek a relationship after sex. A woman is not a "bitch" merely because she said no to a date. And a man is not "creepy" or a "creeper" merely because a woman finds him unattractive, shy or awkward when he approaches. Today, "creepy" is overused far more than those other terms, here and elsewhere, and it needs to stop. I've only ever called one guy a creeper, that I can remember, and he deserves it. Another guy was creepy when he kept assuring me that he was harmless.
GirlontheLam Posted December 7, 2012 Posted December 7, 2012 Are we talking about using creepy as a description of a persons behavior or of the person on the whole?
Under The Radar Posted December 8, 2012 Posted December 8, 2012 (edited) Are we talking about using creepy as a description of a persons behavior or of the person on the whole? Both. The reason some of us on the forum are offended is the rampant overuse/misuse/abuse of the term "creepy" to define "undesirable" men in the dating world. If a woman is not attracted to a potential suitor then she has every right to dismiss him. The problem arises when he is labled a "creep" just for pursuing her and subsequently she is uninterested for whatever reason. Maybe he is shy, or ugly, or overweight, or socially awkward, or any number of other reasons. However, instead of chalking it up to a lack of chemistry, or simple disinterest, the guy is labled a "creep". In other words, it wasn't just a bad match up for the woman, but the guy is defective and unlikely to attract any other females because he's a "CREEP". It's an inappropriate use of the word that's no different than saying that's "retarded" (an insult to people with disabilities) or "gay" (an insult to homosexuals) for something the person dislikes. Of course some people can, in fact, be creepy. Nevertheless, the vast majority of guys are labled "creepy" when a girl he asks out turns him down. How the **** is the guy creepy for liking and asking a girl out? The answer, of course, is that he's not the vast majority of the time. Yet, he is labled with a term that is incredibly derogatory and could carry over to other women's view of him due to social circles. I've had girlfriends or platonic female friends that would use the word to describe a guy at Bed, Bath, and Beyond (as an example) or someone in a restaurant for no apparent reason (another arbitrary example). The exclamation is "Oh, he's so creepy" when, to be honest, this isn't even close to a proper description of the individual in question. I have stood next to some of these woman, after witnessing the interaction, and asked myself "WTF is she talking about"? The reason being that nothing that occured with that person was the slightest bit "creepy". Maybe they were quiet, shy, socially awkward, or a flirt, but they were not "creepy". Edited December 8, 2012 by Training Revelations 1
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