Queens Posted December 5, 2012 Posted December 5, 2012 Okay so my ex girlfriend of 2 1/2 years contacted me a week ago. She moved to a different state for school. She had started to like my pictures on facebook and stuff (trying to be friendly i assume to break the awkwardness). She texted me and said "hey you have been on my mind a lot lately you are in my prayers" on and on. So i responded with a reply back and we texted for a little bit small talk. Then she started being flirty with me after, i started making fun of her and i was responding back the same as well (just like old times). So she tells me that i should call her and i told her i would think about it, probably in 30 minutes and she was being eager saying no make it 25. So i am assuming that she is trying to create a relation with me at this point or she is just trying to catch up? because we talked on the phone, she was asking me how i was, if i had a girlfriend and then she told me that she talked to her mom about me and her mom asked if we were going to get back together (because she was in love with me). she was laughing when saying this.i finally hung up with her and about 15 min later she texted me saying i love hearing from you it was great to talk to you. Next day we back and forth texed we are both busy and later that night she says she wants to talk on the phone after she went to eat for her friends. So she never called but i was not waiting on her so it wasnt a big deal and she started liking my photos and stuff the next day. "is she trying to mess with me?????" so a day later we are hardly texting and by nighttime i asked if i could call her dumb move... and she didnt text back, but likes all my Instagram pictures the next day. So seeing as she likes all my stuff i post a picture "saying get out of my life" but i made it look like a joke. so she texts me asking if i want her out and i dont reply i just start liking her stuff of facebook the next day. What should i do this is all very confusing!
RhapsodyinBlue Posted December 5, 2012 Posted December 5, 2012 You can play the NC game, but I'm very much a communications-oriented guy. I'm the type of person to ask you what your intentions are and why are you calling me. It's not to be mean, but I hate being bull****ted and having my time wasted--especially considering I have a lot of other things I need to focus my energy on. Being on your a lot doesn't tell me ****. Hell, for all I know you could be using me as a backup plan to feel your empty void. All those references to relationships (i.e. whether you had a gf, her mom asking her if you two would get back together) makes me a little skeptical. I don't deal with hot and cold behavior. PERIOD. But that's just the way I see it. I'm sure some people may have some different, yet useful advice. Guard your heart.
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