96nole Posted December 5, 2012 Posted December 5, 2012 Again, sorry if my wording offended you but I don't think it would help me at all if the OM would call me and tell me how sorry he is... Just put it this way... someone drunk drive and kill your son and calls to say sorry... would you appreciate that call??? Well I am sorry again if it offends you but I am just being plain honest about my feelings regarding this topic Can't even try to put that in the same category of infidelity to try and make a comparison. Not even close. 2
whichwayisup Posted December 5, 2012 Posted December 5, 2012 Again, sorry if my wording offended you but I don't think it would help me at all if the OM would call me and tell me how sorry he is... Just put it this way... someone drunk drive and kill your son and calls to say sorry... would you appreciate that call??? Well I am sorry again if it offends you but I am just being plain honest about my feelings regarding this topic At least the Drunk Driver feels remorse and has the balls/guts to apologize. It isn't going to heal all wounds, but it is a start to get on the path of healing. It's a step in the right direction. So an OW/OM apologizing to the BS, owning their part in the A, IS a good thing, especially if they truly mean it. 1
2sure Posted December 6, 2012 Posted December 6, 2012 You were lucky. Until you deal with totally Batsh"# crazy, you can never appreciate how lucky you were with sincerely apologetic OW. I was definitely lucky in that regard...the single OW he snowed were not an issue for me at all, want their doing. I did leave out the 2 married women, who did know who he was and did not apologize. They ended up the sorriest. Bat shyte crazy can take many forms. But nothing like a Long term OW.
nofool4u Posted December 6, 2012 Posted December 6, 2012 My question to other Betrayed Spouses...would an apology matter to you Nope, not one bit. But I did thank the OM for taking my trash off my hands and putting it in his own house. 1
Michael Johnson Posted January 5, 2013 Posted January 5, 2013 Nope, not one bit. But I did thank the OM for taking my trash off my hands and putting it in his own house. Same here. Its not like they're really sorry in the first place.
Michael Johnson Posted January 7, 2013 Posted January 7, 2013 LOL - of course they're not sorry. Affair partners are the epitome of selfishness and self-entitlement. They're constantly justifying their affair and seem to think that because they're in 'love,' that makes everything they're doing perfectly OK. But did you ever notice what happens when an OW finds out that she's not the ONLY side action he's getting? A lot of them go feral and are suddenly concerned about his wife's welfare and want to 'warn' her about what a piece of sh*t her husband is. Gosh, how selfless is that? :laugh: Agreed. And it is unfortunately sad how an OM/OW tries to be objective about their affair which they obviously know is wrong. Their sense of entitlement and over arrogance will backfire on them one day.
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