Nb1988 Posted December 4, 2012 Posted December 4, 2012 Me ex and I broke up 1 month ago tomorrow. She dumped me after we were together for a little over 1 year. In the last month we went a couple of weeks without speaking but in the last week we've been talking more. It hasn't always been good, but it hasn't always been bad. She got mad that I deleted her on Facebook a couple of days ago and I apologized. That same night she got on my mom's Facebook page and started "liking" everything on her page. I don't know if it was to get my attention or not. Well, I'm still close with her family and I was supposed to go see her grandma tonight who she lives with and I texted her today asking if I could stick around until she got off of work to talk..she said that would be fine. I don't know what I plan to say. I don't know if I just want closure or not. This will be the first time we've see each other since we broke up. I still love her and have hope we'll get back together and I guess her agreeing to see me tonight is some sort of progress but I'm not going to get my hopes up. I guess I just need a pep talk and your guys' opinion. Thank a lot.
Chi townD Posted December 4, 2012 Posted December 4, 2012 Not getting your hopes up but needing a pep talk. That's kinda an oxymoron. Look, I don't know what you're trying to accomplish with seeing her again. I speculate that you're not even quite sure. All I'm going to say and keep it light and keep it simple. No begging, pleading or bargaining. Be confidant, hold your head up high and smile a lot. Let her think your life is fantastic right now. Personally, I wouldn't see her. But, this is only an advice forum and you're free to do what you want. Just let us know how it goes. Good Luck! 1
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