leo88 Posted December 4, 2012 Posted December 4, 2012 Hello there ladies and gentlemen i have a question that been bugging my @$$ off.. I really want to text my ex girlfriend to see how she is doing, She ended the relationship of 3 months, i know she cared for me, I think she still love me, But do texting her make me look weak and soft??? I don't want to come off as weak ... Thanks for your responses have a god bless day .... Leo88
PennGuy Posted December 4, 2012 Posted December 4, 2012 (edited) If it was only a three month relationship, I feel you will move on pretty quickly. She dumped you. You stay no contact. Being desperate, clingy, and needy isn't attractive. It's the exact opposite. You weren't that person when you first met. You were confident and sure of yourself. Seriously man, three months. That's as long as one of the seasons. You'll be over this in no time. I guarantee it. Edited December 4, 2012 by PennGuy
Simon Phoenix Posted December 4, 2012 Posted December 4, 2012 If it was only a three month relationship, I feel you will move on pretty quickly. She dumped you. You stay no contact. Being desperate, clingy, and needy isn't attractive. It's the exact opposite. You weren't that person when you first met. You were confident and sure of yourself. Seriously man, three months. That's as long as one of the seasons. You'll be over this in no time. I guarantee it. Depends. Sometimes the short ones can be hard to get over because they end suddenly. Very rarely do you get to see (or pick up on) their negative characteristics in a short relationship because you are in the honeymoon stage, so when it ends you are stuck in WTF? land. The breakup that brought me here was for a short relationship and I still think about her several months later. I've had relationships that have lasted 3-4 times longer which I got over right away. That being said, I would advise the OP not to text. Let's be real, he's not concerned about how she's doing -- he's just looking to grab her attention in the hopes that she'll all of a sudden express interest in dating him again.
Author leo88 Posted December 4, 2012 Author Posted December 4, 2012 that's true thanks for the response i texted her to get her attention feel like i was desperated.. I do want her back but she texted back 2 minutes later... "Hey! i am doing good wanna go get some lunch tomorrow?" I text back sorry i can't i got homework maybe another time ....
flitzanu Posted December 4, 2012 Posted December 4, 2012 that's true thanks for the response i texted her to get her attention feel like i was desperated.. I do want her back but she texted back 2 minutes later... "Hey! i am doing good wanna go get some lunch tomorrow?" I text back sorry i can't i got homework maybe another time .... so you're playing games, or you're actually busy? if your'e playing games you're just going to fail. you wanted her attention, you should have taken your opportunity when she asked for lunch.
suladas Posted December 4, 2012 Posted December 4, 2012 so you're playing games, or you're actually busy? if your'e playing games you're just going to fail. you wanted her attention, you should have taken your opportunity when she asked for lunch. Agreed why would you blow her off? If you were busy you should suggest an alternate date.
Simon Phoenix Posted December 4, 2012 Posted December 4, 2012 So she actually responded and you blew her off?
suladas Posted December 4, 2012 Posted December 4, 2012 Ya seriously wtf, you got the response everyone wants and you play games? FFS man.
Author leo88 Posted December 4, 2012 Author Posted December 4, 2012 no i have homework and a 10 page essay to write ..
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