syw0806 Posted December 4, 2012 Posted December 4, 2012 We just started dating, we went out for only two dates so far. we had sex on the first date.. and I think hes assuming we arr pretty exclusive now.. he never mentioned about exclusive relationship, but he told me he is only seeing me for now that he doesnt see multiple women at the same time. well weve been texting back and forth since day one so I know he hasnt gone any other date. Last time he took me to this restaurant and when the waitress was giving us the bill, theyre engaging a convo which I wasn't paying attention to it. After shes gone, he told me she gave him her number to give her a call.. lol asking me how i think about it, what should he do, and askin if he should throw out the number.. I thought were not in that level that i can tell him what to do about other girls.. I told him its up to him. (it turned out she never gave him # lol) then when we got into his car, he mentioned about this girl again saying she actually gave him number, asked what should he do. I believed that again lol saying i dont know.. and he said he lied again lol During the date he was asking if he is my saturday guy(weve been seeing only saturdays lol) and when he tried to have sex I declined bc I was on period, but when I declined, he asked if theres other guy.. Was he trying to see if Im only seeing him? When he was lieing about the waitress, he tried to see how I react? to see how I take the relationship between us? When I asked about his roommate(female), he was worring if I have bad impression by it and asked me if I want to meet her.. Do you think he is pretty much consider this seriously?
naviis Posted December 4, 2012 Posted December 4, 2012 (edited) We just started dating, we went out for only two dates so far. we had sex on the first date.. and I think hes assuming we arr pretty exclusive now.. he never mentioned about exclusive relationship, but he told me he is only seeing me for now that he doesnt see multiple women at the same time. well weve been texting back and forth since day one so I know he hasnt gone any other date. Last time he took me to this restaurant and when the waitress was giving us the bill, theyre engaging a convo which I wasn't paying attention to it. After shes gone, he told me she gave him her number to give her a call.. lol asking me how i think about it, what should he do, and askin if he should throw out the number.. I thought were not in that level that i can tell him what to do about other girls.. I told him its up to him. (it turned out she never gave him # lol) then when we got into his car, he mentioned about this girl again saying she actually gave him number, asked what should he do. I believed that again lol saying i dont know.. and he said he lied again lol During the date he was asking if he is my saturday guy(weve been seeing only saturdays lol) and when he tried to have sex I declined bc I was on period, but when I declined, he asked if theres other guy.. Was he trying to see if Im only seeing him? When he was lieing about the waitress, he tried to see how I react? to see how I take the relationship between us? When I asked about his roommate(female), he was worring if I have bad impression by it and asked me if I want to meet her.. Do you think he is pretty much consider this seriously? Ugh that would annoy me VERY quickly -- he sounds a little insecure/immature (I can't decide) I think I would have reacted the same as you, except I would have asked why he felt the need to make up stuff like that. Plus, if I'm obviously on a date with a guy and someone hits on him right in front of me (regardless of whether I can hear them), I would be pissed off (because it's extremely disrespectful, not necessarily because I'm jealous) so making up a lie about that with me wouldn't be the best of ideas. I certainly wouldn't feel like stroking his ego after he told me that. Might be a clumsy way of bringing up the exclusive talk. Sounds like you have more balls than he does so maybe you should initiate the conversation and decide whether or not you want to be exclusive. Might also be he's a prick. Edited December 4, 2012 by naviis
clia Posted December 4, 2012 Posted December 4, 2012 How old are you guys? This all sounds a little crazy to me. After shes gone, he told me she gave him her number to give her a call.. lol asking me how i think about it, what should he do, and askin if he should throw out the number.. I thought were not in that level that i can tell him what to do about other girls.. I told him its up to him. You gave the right answer. (it turned out she never gave him # lol) Why are you "lol" after this? Lie #1 -- for no apparent reason. then when we got into his car, he mentioned about this girl again saying she actually gave him number, asked what should he do. I believed that again lol saying i dont know.. and he said he lied again lol Lie #2. Again, why all the "lol"? This guy is making up stories about other women wanting his number on your second date and you think it's funny? I think he sounds like a mental case...but he could just be really immature, which is why I want to know your ages. and when he tried to have sex I declined bc I was on period, but when I declined, he asked if theres other guy.. You decline sex on your second date and he jumps to the conclusion that you are out banging other guys. Wow. Was he trying to see if Im only seeing him? I do think he is very, very immaturely and inartfully attempting to establish an exclusive relationship with you. 1
Toddbt12y1 Posted December 4, 2012 Posted December 4, 2012 Very immature relationship. Both of you are immature. What are you, a teen girl or something? Either way it won't work. This relationship is doomed to immaturity...all that needs to be said.
naviis Posted December 4, 2012 Posted December 4, 2012 Why are you "lol" after this? Lie #1 -- for no apparent reason. Lie #2. Again, why all the "lol"? This guy is making up stories about other women wanting his number on your second date and you think it's funny? Agreed
Author syw0806 Posted December 4, 2012 Author Posted December 4, 2012 How old are you guys? This all sounds a little crazy to me. You gave the right answer. Why are you "lol" after this? Lie #1 -- for no apparent reason. Lie #2. Again, why all the "lol"? This guy is making up stories about other women wanting his number on your second date and you think it's funny? I think he sounds like a mental case...but he could just be really immature, which is why I want to know your ages. You decline sex on your second date and he jumps to the conclusion that you are out banging other guys. Wow. I do think he is very, very immaturely and inartfully attempting to establish an exclusive relationship with you. you are right.. haha well, I'm 22 and he's 29... I actually didn't get upset when he lied about the waitress. He was saying in teasing way, not seriously, maybe that's why..? I felt more like he tried to test me.. than make me jealous. yea, that was immature that he lied about the waitress,, I think he's been very insecure. I don't know why he is though. guess he thinks i'm dating multiple guys since we're only dating.. and never discussed about a relationship? or maybe he had a bad experience in the past... idk.. Thanks anyway
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